If yesterday's sharing reminds you of the role of "father", congratulations, you must be a person with strong introspection ability.
If yesterday's sharing aroused your doubts, then today's content I will specifically list some professional research data and results to further confirm the role of fathers in children's growth and the difference between being accompanied by fathers and not being accompanied by fathers.
If someone told you that the biggest problem in the world today is the lack of a father, would you believe it? Maybe you will shake your head in disbelief, maybe you will doubt it, but the following data will clearly tell you that this is true!
Relevant research shows that 75% to 90% of felonies, 97% of rapes and domestic violence are committed by men, and 75% of drunk drivers are men.
The above data show that most of the social instability factors come from men. These unstable factors reflect that men are more likely to be away from home.
In addition, according to a survey data in the west:
63% suicides come from families without fathers;
80% revenge rapists come from families without fathers;
70% teenagers in state correctional institutions come from families without fathers;
32% of children don't live with their biological fathers, and these children are twice as likely to have emotional and behavioral problems as children from their parents' families.
Although these data are only part of the survey results, they are enough to reflect the influence of men on society and the influence of fathers on their children.
As far as the influence of family education is concerned, the primary responsibility of parents in raising children is to build the integrity of children's life in six life dimensions: spirituality, body, emotion, socialization, rationality and environment. Among them, father has a great influence on emotion, body, society and reason!
Don't believe it? Then let's keep looking down.
In the process of baby development, if the father actively participates in parenting, has more play and care with the child, and gives the child encouragement and heuristic interaction, then the baby can show higher cognitive ability at the age of six months. By the age of one, they continue to lead in cognitive ability until they are toddlers and can solve problems better, and their IQ is higher by the age of three;
Babies whose fathers actively participate in parenting are more likely to establish safe contact with their fathers. When they grow up, they are more able to cope with unfamiliar environments, be more tenacious when facing pressure, be more curious, be more eager to explore the environment, be more mature when dealing with strangers, be more comfortable when dealing with complex and fresh stimuli, and be more trusting when exploring a wider range.
Children with fathers actively involved in parenting are more able to withstand pressure and setbacks, have stronger problem-solving ability and adaptability, and will be more relaxed, more witty, more mature and more focused when encountering problems, and can better manage emotions and impulses in an appropriate way;
Children whose fathers actively participate in parenting are more likely to show strong self-control, and are more willing to actively guide and control themselves, thus showing less impulse;
Daughters whose fathers are actively involved in parenting are more willing to try new things, be busier and happier;
Young people with fathers actively participate in parenting and companionship, and when they grow up, they can better accept themselves and do better in personal and social adaptation. They will think that they can rely on and trust others. They are pragmatic and friendly, and they are more likely to succeed at work.
Children whose fathers actively participate in parenting are more likely to have positive peer relationships, be more popular and loved, be less negative and aggressive in peer relationships, and show mutual benefit, generosity and optimism;
Children with fathers actively participating in parenting are more friendly and loyal between brothers and sisters, have less negative emotional reactions in communication, have less tension when interacting with other children, and can solve problems by themselves without relying on others;
Children with fathers actively involved in parenting are more likely to become tolerant and considerate people, become successful people who are good at communication, have a network of close friends for a long time, and are more able to adapt to social life.
Children whose fathers are actively involved in parenting are more likely to have a long-term and successful marriage, be more satisfied with their partners in middle age, be more successful in dealing with intimate relationships, and be less likely to divorce.
To sum up, children whose fathers actively participate in parenting may achieve higher economic and educational achievements, more successful careers, more competent jobs, better academic performance, educational goals, educational achievements and mental health.
When you get here, you may ask: What's the matter?
Because people's behavior comes from their understanding of thoughts, a healthy brain can make people behave well when dealing with the outside world, but a healthy brain needs a good emotional state as the foundation. This is what we usually call the influence of good mood and security on people's behavior!
Here comes the question: Where do good emotions and sense of security come from? From my father.
The unique hormone secretion of male creatures makes them a source of security. If the relationship between the child and the father is safe, supportive, interactive, sensitive, intimate, considerate and enthusiastic, it proves that the father has played a very significant role in the emotional influence of the child, and this influence will be effective for a long time until the whole life.
A good relationship with the father will make the child have a good emotional state and good emotional intelligence. High EQ will produce initiative, leadership, innovation and creativity, thus helping children win a better life.