It has become a common phenomenon for the elderly to take care of their children. Nowadays, young people have a fast pace of work and great pressure in life, so they have to ask their parents to help take care of their children. Parents' generation will have their own concept of parenting. They tend to listen to people's past experiences without too much judgment or verification, which will lead to many of their experiences being wrong. Most young people learn the scientific concept of parenting, so it is easy to have contradictions and conflicts with the elderly with children.
My approach: respect is the first premise. In our life, we often encounter situations where parents and their own parenting concepts are inconsistent. In this case, I will first judge whether my parents' actions will hurt anyone. If they don't hurt anyone, I won't interfere too much and respect the way parents raise their children. Secondly, if parents' ways will affect their children's growth, I will tell my parents what I think and the possible influence of parents' parenting styles in a non-judgmental and non-judgmental way, so that parents can understand them most of the time.
It is not easy for old people to take care of children. Just understand more and blame the elderly less, no matter how they take care of their children. So as young people, we should give them more understanding and respect. If the concept of parenting conflicts, young people should not rashly blame the elderly, but should give the elderly more time and space to learn and understand the correct concept of parenting, and communicate and explain with the elderly more patiently, so that the elderly can accept the new concept of parenting more easily and have a more harmonious family atmosphere.