Parents' words and deeds will exert a subtle influence on their children. When children have various needs for their parents, parents' reactions to their children, whether they are happy or disgusted, may leave seeds of influence in their hearts. When parents take care of young children, children will feel safe from childhood, will not be afraid of timidity, and will be more willing to approach people around them.
When I was young, my parents took us to visit relatives and friends. Usually, our parents teach us to call us "uncle" and "aunt" politely.
In other people's homes, we can't do whatever we want as in our own. These are words and deeds. That's what parents say.
Children's upbringing is more about whether they can take care of others' feelings and make others feel comfortable when interacting with others.
The child's imitation ability is amazing. Your every move will be discovered by the child, and then he will follow suit and imitate. Only the longer you spend with children, the more familiar you will be, the more familiar you will be, the more you will imitate and get along with children, which is why children are "clingy".
In addition to parents, grandparents, uncles and aunts around children will also have a certain influence. Children's playmates will spend less time with their parents when they grow up, which is why Meng Mu moved three times. Mencius' mother didn't want her children to be influenced by other children, so she took the initiative to stay away from playful children and let Mencius get close to studious children. This is why it is said that "it is dark to be near Zhu Zhechi and Mexican".