1, treat children equally.
Children are eager for independence because of the enhancement of their sense of independence and self-awareness, so they will have differences with their parents in ideas and views. In this period, parents need to treat their children as an independent individual, so as to understand their thoughts, and children will become more trusting and willing to open their hearts with their parents.
2. Learn to listen.
Don't express your opinions in a hurry, first listen to what the children say, let the children speak their true thoughts and give them their own constructive opinions.
3. Control your emotions.
Children are in a rebellious period, unable to control their emotions correctly, and it is easy to make a scene with their parents on a trivial matter. At this time, parents should not insist or say some harsh words to reprimand their children. They can wait until their emotions are stable before talking to their children and telling them what is right and wrong.
Step 4 encourage children
In the face of small advantages, we should praise him generously, especially in public. This appreciation and praise can play a greater role in children in special periods.
5, the correct guidance
In the rebellious period of adolescence, you need to be patient and persuasive with your child and teach him the correct outlook on life and values. At the same time, don't rush for success, let children have time to think, understand and accept.
The Manifestations and Causes of the Rebellious Period of Grade Two Children
The performance of children in grade one and grade two in rebellious period
1, especially talking back.
Rebellious children always like to talk back to their parents in their daily lives. No matter what parents say, their first reaction is to give it back to them.
2. egocentric.
Children in the rebellious period have a strong sense of self, think that their ideas and practices are correct, and don't like to listen to other people's opinions and opinions. I even like to break the rules and challenge some rules.
3, big temper, love to lose your temper.
His temper is particularly unstable, his emotional control ability is poor, and he is easily excited. He yells at his parents and loses his temper because of trivial things. Sometimes I always hate my parents' nagging, and I can't even listen to my parents' opinions. I have strong resistance.
The reasons why the second and second grade children enter the rebellious period
1, immature thinking ability.
Teenagers often have strong self-esteem and vanity, but they can't correctly safeguard their dignity. They regard the persuasion, criticism and warning of educators as "management, restraint and pressure", so they have a rebellious mentality of verbally refuting and acting in the opposite direction.
2. Repeated nagging leads to boredom.
Some parents like to talk about their children again and again. Children don't want to listen, but if they complain, they will be accused of ignorance and inconsideration by their parents. Such nagging will make children feel bored, so that they feel that their families and parents are depressed and will have the idea of staying away from their parents.
3. Excessive accommodation of children.
Adults indulge their children too much. Children think that their mistakes will not be criticized. This kind of wrong information makes them confuse right from wrong. Once parents want to discipline, children will be very uncomfortable and will inevitably have rebellious psychology.