Children are in a psychological transition period, and their sense of independence and self-awareness is gradually enhanced. They are unconventional and like to express themselves, so they often have words and deeds that their parents can't understand. In fact, in the face of children of this age, it is advisable to be sparse but not compatible, and parents should pay attention to adjusting the education methods. Then, the child is in the third grade this year, and I reason with him. As a result, he said that I was not qualified to educate him. What should I do?

First of all, keep a calm mind. Face-to-face is the least desirable method, because children are most likely to be angered when they are rebellious. Impatient parents must remind themselves to stay calm before communicating with their children, and don't get angry because of a trivial matter. Understand children's feelings with empathy. It is very important to have empathy when dealing with people. Communicate from the child's point of view, understand the child's difficulties, adjust in time, and find effective solutions from constant communication.

Second, integrate into the children's world. Due to the age gap between parents and children, it may be difficult to empathize from the perspective of children. Therefore, parents should integrate into their children's world, discuss their favorite things with their children, and let them understand right and wrong in the discussion. Let the children experience it for themselves. Sometimes children's demands are unreasonable, and parents can't meet them for no reason, so let the children calm down and experience their own demands.

Finally, do more investigation and observation in communication. Observe the rebellious period of children calmly from the perspective of onlookers and communicate with children from different angles. At the same time, pay more attention to children's needs in communication. Give children some autonomy. Only democratic parents can create a democratic atmosphere, so that children can enjoy democratic rights and dare to express their opinions. Praise children's good behavior in time. Praise can indirectly make children understand what is right. Adjust communication methods in time. Parents can't just control power, but can communicate in two directions and change roles. Be a child's listener, communicate with children from all angles, and find the most suitable way for children in communication.