There is a popular saying among college students: "Love is a compulsory course in college. If you haven't been in love during college, you are not a qualified college student. " Therefore, in classrooms, canteens, playgrounds, roads and other public places, couples of college students can be seen everywhere. In love, some students also put aside their due reserve and implication, showing more and more investment and boldness, and devoted themselves to the vigorous torrent of love. There are no people around classrooms, canteens, playgrounds and other public places, which has a bad influence on teachers and students and destroys the good image of college students.
2. The proportion of girls in love is higher than that of boys.
First, girls' physical and sexual psychology matures early, and their dependence is strong, and their demand for "emotional harbor" and sex is stronger than that of boys; Secondly, the absolute number of female college students is small, and the proportion of female college students is lower than that of male college students, so in the "binary" love world, female college students are always in the leading position of "demand exceeds supply". As long as they are willing, girls who are not dominant in their own conditions will also find loving bosom friends, while boys with poor quality will be relatively left out in the campus "love field".
3. Diversification of love motives
According to the survey, only 30% of college students fall in love with the purpose of "getting married and starting a career", more for "enriching their lives" and "getting rid of loneliness", and some for pursuing money, fame and status. They only pay attention to the emotional input and experience in the process of love, and go out of the traditional love trilogy of "communication-love-marriage", thinking that love need not be entrusted for life. As a result, a "contractual love" appeared on campus. I fell in love with each other at school and filled the psychological gap. Some people even rent a house off campus and live together, but they say goodbye to each other when they graduate. This kind of blind "lonely love" which lacks sense of responsibility and seriousness is a very dangerous game and an unacceptable attitude towards life.
4。 Boys are more active than girls.
Due to the disparity between male and female college students. Under normal circumstances, boys can only find their favorite lovers by taking the initiative. Relatively speaking, girls can choose the right lover among many suitors.
5. The love ratio of liberal arts students is higher than that of science students.
This is mainly due to the influence of professional nature. Liberal arts students usually have loose courses and romantic ideas. Falling in love can enrich their leisure life and satisfy their romantic thoughts. Science and engineering students have many experiments, heavy homework after class and great learning pressure, so the proportion of love is low. Perhaps the "EQ" of liberal arts students is generally higher than that of science and engineering students.
6. Love is random
The main performance is that the love cycle is shortened and the frequency is increased. Because many students fall in love on impulse, they can't think clearly about the future. Usually after dating for a period of time, they find someone more suitable for them, so they break up immediately and find another lover. Short and fast love has become a feature of contemporary college students' love. The success rate is low, a few college students regard college love as a "test field", and "love professionals" have also appeared.
7. Low success rate in love
Because of the randomness of love, the success rate is low during school. In addition, not being able to work together after graduating from college is the only reason for college students' lovers to break up. May and June are the season of graduation and breakup every year.
8. Subjective study comes first, and objective love comes first.
In the relationship between study and love, 43.6% of college students think that "study is higher than love"; 49.6% think it is equally important; Only 6.8% people think that "love is higher than learning". The survey results show that most students can view the relationship between study and love correctly subjectively. However, few college students can handle the relationship between study and love objectively and correctly. What's more, once you fall in love, you can't extricate yourself. Strong feelings will affect everything. You are busy all day, very much in love, tired of studying, leaving early, and absenteeism increases, which even leads to your failing in many courses and your failure to graduate smoothly, which delays your bright future. Very sad.
9. The concept of love is becoming more and more open.
According to a survey conducted by China Youth Daily on college students' views on premarital sex, 50% of them agreed in 2002 and 65% in 2003. Numerically, this is an increasing trend. College students' love is limited by their school status, so many people think that love should be conservative at this time, but some people think that college students are adults and can freely choose the way of love. There are five kinds of love behaviors in the survey of love behavior scale, which are holding hands, kissing, caressing, making love and living together. More than half of the boys choose "cohabitation", while girls generally think that kissing or caressing is normal behavior.