The following are the reading notes of Fu Lei's family for reference only:
First, Fu Lei loves his son deeply.
"Dear child, the day after you left, you want to write a letter, for fear that you will feel bored, that's all. But I miss you every day and wake up at six or seven every morning. I can't sleep over and over again, and I can't tell why. It seems that Christophe's mother stayed at home alone and remembered the images of the children's childhood scenes. Your mother and I always think of your little story between the ages of 23 and 67. "
The above passage is taken from a letter written by Fu Lei to his son Fu Cong. From the above statement, it can be seen between the lines that Fu Lei loves his son deeply. For an adult son, I hope he will thrive.
Outward development, but can't bear to keep children away from them. In fact, parents are like this. From conception in August to delivery in 10, parents worked hard to raise their children step by step, hoping that their children would be useful in the future, but not.
Sleeping on the street. However, when children become talents, it is also time to leave the eaves and fly alone. As parents, we are both happy and sad for them. After all, it is flesh and blood. We should feel and understand the pain of our parents,
Let parents see what they want to see-our happy life, which is also a reward for parents' painstaking parenting.
Second, Fu Lei encouraged his son.
"As far as playing is concerned, I think it is generally good and full of energy. The delicate place is very delicate. Tonecolour has really changed a lot. We are all very happy and moved. Good boy, I really should
A few words of praise will do you good. Looking back 195 1 when you first returned to Shanghai from Kunming in April, you really walked halfway up the mountain from the low-lying land. I hope you will pay attention to the whole cultivation from now on, and you will be able to climb to the top in the future. "
This is Mr. Fu Lei's evaluation of his son Fu Cong after listening to his recording. This includes teacher Fu's record, careful analysis and objective appreciation of his son. Later I mentioned my hope for my son. This is the way parents educate their children. It is necessary to show their affirmation of children, so that children have the determination to work hard and the confidence to succeed. On the other hand, I also put forward my own hopes and pointed out the direction of progress and development for the children. As children, we should also learn from our parents' experience, learn from each other's strengths, and open up our own new path on the road guided by our parents.
Third, Fu Lei's charge.
"In institutions, it is inevitable to catch up with tasks and hinder normal study. This is what I expected. Everything can only be won by ourselves with a firm will and position, and we can be gentle and powerful to the leaders. How much can I prepare for going abroad? -especially in music, I have been uneasy. From now on, everywhere depends on your personal perseverance, belief and will-the will to practice. "
Although parents have a thousand words of advice, they can't let go. How should a son cope with the ever-changing society?
Yes, as a parent, I have mixed feelings. With his own experience, remind his son to take less complaints and take more shortcuts. This is the idea of parents all over the world. Children are the continuation of parents' lives and the hope of holding up the sun in their hearts. Parents go
I don't want my children to repeat the same mistakes, I hope they can "go up a storey still higher" than themselves. Adolescence should let go of rebellious psychology, listen to parents' lessons and understand their pains. Actually, it's for me, too
Children are good to themselves for our future life to be more relaxed and happy.
Fourth, mother's concern.
"I hope you put all your energy into the study of knowledge, with more reason and less emotion. Of course, you need to rely on your strong confidence to control all your troubles. This is not an easy task, but it must be overcome. For your emotional problems,
I never take part in any opinions. I think you are making progress in all aspects. You are a smart man, and you will realize it. Since I am your mother and we are the same flesh and blood, I have to nag and advise you. "
It should be said that mother is cautious. The father has good intentions for his son's future, while the mother starts from the most delicate place-the son's emotional problems, giving him a clear direction. Tell him how to deal with his feelings and things.
Industry problems, let the son understand that the key is there. We should also learn from Fu Lei's wife. We should understand our priorities, our tasks, our road and direction, what we should do and what we should not do.
Yao, grasp the direction of discretion. This will contribute to our success.
V. Fu Lei loves his son.
"Son, I tease you, I will always be sorry for you, and I will never make amends! These thoughts have never left my mind all day, but I dare not tell your mother that if you do something wrong in your life, your conscience will never be at peace! Really, Balzac said it well: some sins can only be redeemed and cannot be washed away! "
On the occasion of parting, father Fu Lei blamed himself for being strict with his son and being "cruel". It turned out to be my own fault. Well, in fact, this is the love for my son! If you don't work hard when you are young, your boss will be sad! Mr. Fu Lei's son is young.
, strict discipline, meticulous, "cruel abuse" of his son Fu Cong. Sounds like a joke. Where would a father abuse his own flesh and blood? As the saying goes, a dutiful son comes from the bottom of a stick, while Mr. Fu Lei uses the bottom of strict father.
Give birth to a talent. When our parents are "violent" to us, we should have an understanding attitude and understand our parents' anxiety. Because they did it for us, and they hated iron for not turning into steel. After all, father
Mothers all hope to see their children become dragons and their daughters become phoenixes!
Sixth, summarize the image of Fu Lei.
Reading the whole article is just like talking to teacher Fu Lei. One vivid image of Fu Lei is displayed in front of me, as if Fu Lei is my father, inculcating me. What impressed Mr. Fu Lei most was his love.
The son is affectionate and righteous, and he is well disciplined. I have read "Affirm Yourself" written by Liu Yong before, which is also a warning to my son. The lines between the lines reflect Liu Yong's love for his son. Both books are about sons.
Love and discipline. But they are essentially different. Letters from Fu Lei tells us how to grasp our own mentality and how to improve our studies and careers, while Affirming Yourself tells us more about an open mind and an independent concept.
When I came into contact with Fu Lei's Letters from Fu Lei, I realized that this was China's traditional but advanced thought. I appreciate the learning methods that Mr. Fu Lei told my son, but I don't like the way that Mr. Fu Lei vented his feelings for his son. Compared with Liu Yong, Mr. Fu is more reserved and conservative.
I learned from books that my parents raised me with great pains. They strive to create a good learning environment for me, let me study in a comfortable place, and strive to create a better future.
Living environment, live a life without worry about food and clothing. They have worked hard! And we still don't understand the truth. The rebellious mentality is getting stronger every day, ignoring parents' difficulties and going its own way. In fact, you will suffer in the end.
How can we face the increasingly fierce social competition in the future without talent and level?
I think we should understand our parents' pains, study hard and repay our parents!
Don't forget to give a compliment, dear ~