1. To cultivate girls' self-confidence, girls can adapt well to the environment of exam-oriented education, but there is a phenomenon that we have to pay attention to, that is, some girls generally learn better than boys in primary and secondary schools, but they learn very hard in junior and senior high schools. The main reason is that girls' self-confidence is not cultivated. Parents and the whole social environment do not attach importance to girls' education, thinking that it is almost enough. "Women are virtuous without talent." Even in the last century, it was useless for parents to ask girls to drop out of school directly. Finally, they had to get married.

2. Let girls know their gender differences, teach her basic physiological knowledge and self-protection methods, cultivate her awareness of self-protection, especially for girls above junior high school, and establish self-esteem and self-love consciousness and concept. The times are becoming more and more open, and we need to learn to respect ourselves and protect ourselves. But all physical contact must be informed to parents, because physical contact is a kind of crossing the line, and puberty hormones are abundant. To learn to control, wisdom and true love always need to be calm rather than hasty and impulsive.

3, cultivate a variety of hobbies, girls have many directions to cultivate, choose what she is interested in and good at, will improve the overall quality of girls, enhance temperament and personal charm, and let her gradually become excellent. In the long years of adulthood, you can play if you have hobbies, and you can gain more fun and friends than chatting, shopping and playing mobile phones, so that your life will be colorful and avoid dullness.

4, give freedom, raise a daughter, don't hold her daughter too firmly, otherwise her daughter will completely lose the ability to survive independently, and give her children some opportunities to pursue their dreams in due course, otherwise it will easily make her rebellious. In fact, in a word, raising a daughter pays attention to psychological enrichment rather than blindly pursuing some external things.

5, give enough care, we all know that girls are generally psychologically fragile, so as parents to raise their daughters, we must first give enough care to our daughters, but also care about whether their daughters are full or not, whether they are warm or not, and so on. It is understood that girls who lack care in general families are easily moved by the care of outsiders, so they are easily fooled by others, so family warmth and care are essential.

6, good habits, good habits determine a lifetime, good living habits are a prerequisite for children's physical growth and maintain a healthy body! Good study habits determine how children treat their lives in the next ten years or even longer, that is to say, good study habits determine the quality of children's life in the future to a certain extent!

7, shielding bad information, when children are young, we should take the initiative to shield bad information, as parents can not actively spread. For example, if the child is fat, will the child's face look good? This will make children lose self-confidence and care too much about other people's comments. What's more, happiness and appearance are considered to be causal. Parents should help their children know themselves, accept themselves, love themselves and cherish their bodies.