I think this kind of parenting method is very good for children's future growth. In family education, children are watching what their parents are doing, not what their parents are saying! Parents only talk about children but don't do it. It doesn't make much sense to say it Doing it is more direct, deeper, easier to understand, easier to imitate, and easier to educate and influence children!

There is no fixed way for family education, and there is no key to open thousands of locks. There must be a gap between theory and practice, and it is difficult to practice parenting. It is not easy for parents to constantly learn and reflect on themselves and try their best to deal with their children's endless behavior. But as long as parents can bravely go on, just like crossing the river by feeling the stones, if this foot is wrong, we can quickly take it back and try to go out again, accumulate parenting experience in practice and enlarge beautiful flowers in practice.

And for young parents, they are all children themselves and have no experience as parents. We can only try our best to educate our children and treat them as our friends and adults. I think this will enable them to grow up better, so that children can understand the way of getting along with adults from an early age, and they can be thoughtful and mature in the face of anything in the future.

For family education, I am afraid that my parents will not change after their death, and they will run all the way to black; I am afraid that I will ignore my children and go my own way, only raising and not teaching; What I am afraid of is the suspicion of family education and the expectation that children will get better one day; What scares me is that parents only say one thing to their children and do another.