When children grow up, they will come into contact with many people and things, and sometimes they will be infected with some bad personalities. This kind of personality needs parents to improve slowly to prevent some negative effects on children in the future. Those children who like to compare with others like to compare with others from the beginning and think that others are better than themselves, which is a bit unwilling. Slowly, they will have the psychology of keeping up with others, which is difficult to change.

Parents should not be too satisfied with children who like to compare with others. Generally, their hearts are very inferior. If they want to surpass others in this respect, they will have some psychology of keeping up with the joneses. At this time, parents should educate their children according to their comparison psychology in order to make them grow up healthily. Children who have this kind of comparison psychology are generally in a very luxurious state. When they see what others have, they want to ask their parents for it and let them buy it. At this time, parents must not meet any of their needs, which will only make their comparison psychology more and more serious.

Communicate with children. Parents buy things for their children to meet their needs, depending on whether the children need them. If they don't use this thing at all, parents don't need to buy it for their children at all, and they can control their children accordingly to avoid the intense psychological rehearsal of this comparison. While correcting children's comparison psychology, we should also communicate with children to correct this unhealthy trend and stifle it in the cradle. Some children will have some adverse reactions after comparing with others, and the relationship between the two sides will get worse and worse.

Tell your children about the dangers of keeping up with the joneses. Parents should tell their children about the dangers of comparison, and let them realize that their comparison will bring many bad things and may change accordingly. When communicating, parents should also pay attention to their children's personality problems, respect their privacy, and let their children feel that they can be accepted by their parents, so that their children will not have some anxious thoughts. Children have this kind of comparison psychology, and there are mistakes in family education at home. Therefore, parents must give support and encouragement in peacetime, so that they have more confident emotions and will not distort their three views and ideas.