Teach children not to have a third person. At the scene, some mistakes don't have to be solved at the dinner table, and then criticize or reason when you are alone with your children.

1, don't educate your children in front of outsiders.

Criticizing children in public is embarrassing them, which not only fails to achieve the educational purpose, but also makes them feel ashamed, embarrassed and even inferior.

2. Do not publicize the child's shortcomings and privacy.

Although children are young, they also have self-esteem. It is also necessary to save face and publicize children's shortcomings, which will make children feel that they are really poor, and parents also feel that they are poor, so that children will care about external ratings.

3. Praise others without belittling children.

Some parents "belittle" their children and praise other children. In children's eyes, denying yourself at home will really make him feel inferior to other children.

Psychologist Dr. Susan Forward

Poisoned Parents says that children can't tell the truth from jokes. They believe their parents' comments on themselves and turn them into their own opinions.

As parents

We should see the bright spots of children and look at their growth objectively. Don't praise or belittle.