As the ancients said, Fiona Fang cannot live without rules. There are national laws and family rules, especially in education. If there are no rules, there is no way to regulate behavior. The sooner you teach your child some rules, the better. The earlier children are educated, the better for their physical and mental development. As the saying goes, food is the most important thing for people. The Chinese nation has nurtured splendid food culture for 5,000 years, and these food cultures are also displayed on the dining table in China. Regarding table manners, China has attached great importance to table manners since ancient times. These manners have been passed down to this day, especially those big families, which pay more attention to children's manners and upbringing, and have 10 dining tables.

1 Let children know that table seating is exquisite.

Educate children to know that the seats at the table are appropriate. When a table is divided into two groups, guests are invited to sit near the door, because in China table manners, you have to show the way to whoever comes in, and you have to get up to help when serving. Tenants are the most distinguished guests. In the position facing the door, we often see that at home, the elders at home sit in the main seat and then arrange them below. The left is more precious than the right, which means sitting on the left and right of the host and guests. If parents teach their children this rule when they are very young, they will benefit for life.

Guests and elders move chopsticks first.

Parents should also tell their children that we can't move chopsticks when there are guests at home, and we can't move chopsticks unless our elders move chopsticks at home. This is the rule, etiquette and education. If the food is far away from you, eat less or not. No matter how much you like it, don't make any noise when you eat this dish.

3 Placement of chopsticks

People in China eat tableware with chopsticks, and there are many rules for using chopsticks. The position of chopsticks must be marked, chopsticks must be placed neatly, not one long and one short, not crossed, not three long and two short. Moreover, when putting chopsticks, you can't insert them directly into the bowl. That's incense and curse.

You can't make a sound when eating.

You can't make a sound when eating. In fact, in Beijing, the rules on the dining table are more particular, and the noise during eating gives people a very bad feeling. Especially people who eat and talk.

Hold the bowl with your hand when eating.

When eating, use chopsticks in one hand and a bowl in the other.

6 Don't say "yes" when adding meals to guests.

You can't say "yes" when you add rice to a guest, and you can't ask others if they want rice. Beggars are for beggars. You can't say yes when adding rice, otherwise it will be disrespectful to the guests.

Don't run around after sitting down to eat.

When eating, don't run around after sitting down, because running around after sitting down will disturb others' eating. Because after sitting down to eat, if you run around and move around, you are likely to knock over your chopsticks. In China, breaking chopsticks on the dining table is very taboo.

Don't suck the soup and sneak out.

When drinking soup, you are not allowed to suck out noise. We all know that we should drink soup slowly with a spoon, but some people are used to eating soup. The noise inhaled is very loud, which will inevitably give people uncomfortable feelings. If the soup is too hot, wait for it to cool, and never blow it while drinking.

Don't shake your legs when eating.

The principle for parents to educate their children at the dinner table is to tell them not to shake their legs while eating. We see that some children are always moving around when eating, which is very dishonest. Some children have one foot on the stool and the other leg is shaking all the time. It is impolite to shake your legs, especially when eating.

10 when picking vegetables, pick them from the side of the plate and don't turn them in the plate.

Parents must tell me that children must pick vegetables from the edge of the plate, don't pull them on the plate with chopsticks, and don't toss and turn them over. Even if they want to eat a piece of meat on the plate, they can't turn to get the meat on the plate. If you pull chopsticks back and forth on the plate, others will lose their appetite. It gives people a particularly bad feeling. Try to use a bowl when you take food back, and don't let vegetable soup drip on the table, because it is not only unsightly, but also impolite.

At the end of the article, I want to remind my friends that the rules at the table should be kept away from children as soon as possible, because it is conducive to the development of children's habits. When children develop these rules on the dining table into their own habits, we will find that these rules on the dining table have become the highlight of children's education. In fact, many times we find that some children are not very good, but they are very likable. That's his educational charm revealed in his bones. This charm is precisely.