1. Parents should put their children in the right circle, because in which circle you put their children, they will become what kind of people. Make friends with positive energy and positive people. Parents should always be learners and read more books, so that children can feel their learning ability. The so-called "near the ink is black." Every child will often encounter confusion and confusion when growing up, which will make him lose confidence and courage. This is because he has no experience. Therefore, at the critical moment, parents should know how to enlighten their children, let them choose the right direction, and build up confidence and courage. This is the responsibility of parents, which explains why parents are children's first teachers. Good parents will always pay attention to their children, pay attention to their every step and change, and always remind, educate and care for their children. This is the most powerful guarantee for the healthy growth of children.

Parents should let their children have independent room for growth. Of course, we know that grades are very important. As parents, we should also know that grades are not the most important. Paying more attention to grades will only make both parties tired and make children lack certainty in other aspects. Of course, parents should not deliberately help their children do everything in order to make their children have better academic performance. Just like the origin of an individual, he always chooses where to go. As a person who lacks life experience and experience and has no "full capacity for civil conduct", children need clear and firm direction guidance from their parents in their behavior. Everyone needs independence, which is also a necessity for growth. Children grow up slowly and want to get rid of their parents' sense of independence. Everyone, including us, is independent and will not grow up one day. We grow in the process of continuous accumulation.

3. suggestion: you can't ignore the children, but you can't be too strict with them. Everyone has their own privacy. Think about it. Did your parents search your schoolbag when you were a child? Do you feel sick? The former is the same as the latter. So leave too much space for yourself and your children. In addition to encouraging children to study hard, parents should also educate their children to learn to live, know what happiness and happiness are, and grasp the relationship between work and rest. You should tell your children to take time out to enjoy a happy life, no matter how stressful the work is. A happy life is the purpose of life. If a person only knows how to work but not how to live, he may lose courage and confidence in the face of difficulties.