I watched teacher Yu Dan's short film "Personality Education for Primary and Secondary School Students" today, and I learned a lot. Be grateful and have the ability to resist setbacks. In particular, many short stories told by teacher Yu Dan inspired me.

There is a little boy, because his relatives love him very much, so he is spoiled and loves to lose his temper with others. In order to get rid of his bad habit of losing his temper, his father asked him to hammer a nail in the fence every time he lost his temper. With the number of nails hammered every day ranging from more than 30 to 5 or 3, until there was nothing, the little boy gradually controlled his emotions well and got rid of the bad habit of losing his temper. But his father told him to pull out all the nails and pointed to the dense nail holes on the fence and said to him, "Son, it is good for you to get rid of the habit of losing your temper, but look at this pinhole, just like the scar you leave in others' hearts every time you lose your temper."

We always lose our temper and sometimes take it out on our parents when we are wronged. There is a little boy who wants to eat sorbet. Because the weather was not hot, his parents were afraid that he had a stomachache, so they didn't buy it for him. He will cry and even say that his parents are not good enough to buy an ice cream ... Make a part that reminds me of what Mr. Yu Dan said: "There are many children who are self-centered and others think it is right to give him something. If they don't give him something, they shouldn't. They feel that it is not a mutual affection to give him something, but it is their duty not to give him something. " The child's behavior verifies such a sentence, and what we have to do is the latter.

There is another story that surprised me: 1 Students were expelled from school for three times and even committed suicide because they failed to get a haircut three times.

The teacher said that at present, many children aged 17 commit suicide because they can't stand the blow. This makes me wonder, why did you choose suicide? You can have your hair cut again if you don't pass the exam, and you can take the exam again if you don't pass the exam ... but life is only once, and they end their lives so easily. Life belongs not only to ourselves, but also to our parents and relatives. When we give up life lightly, we think of them, their pain and their love, so we must face setbacks bravely and improve our ability to resist setbacks. We hope our parents will not be afraid of our setbacks. On the road of growth, we will bypass the pit and climb the mountain. It may not be smooth sailing, but failure, frustration and fear are indispensable for our growth, aren't they?

After reading this lecture, I really benefited a lot

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