1, parents should understand tolerance. The more rebellious children are, the more parents need to have a calm and stable mood. At this time, don't judge the child's behavior by right or wrong, but give the child more understanding. For example, when a child's exam results are not satisfactory, don't automatically think that it is caused by the child's lack of care, let alone blame him as soon as he sees the decline in his grades, but say: I know you are under great pressure, so you should work hard in your own way. Parental tolerance will create space for children's psychological growth, so that they can precipitate their emotions to the maximum extent, thus better changing their behavior and ways of doing things.

2. communicate effectively. Parents should put down their elders' airs and talk to their children patiently, because it has to be said that there will be some generation gap between parents and children. Parents don't understand children's ideas, and children don't understand adults' practices, which is prone to problems. So, sit down and talk patiently, let the other party know what the other party thinks, and you will better understand the other party's practices and avoid unnecessary conflicts.

3. Observe more and learn the modern education mode. Teach children not to use fists, but to use transformation and charging. Only with conceptual knowledge can you be a good parent.

4. Try to integrate into children's life. Sometimes the generation gap appears because of the different living environment, which leads people to have different views on the world. Try to integrate into their lives, see what they usually like to do and think about why they like it. You can also try to like it, so he will think you are more like him. Friend, he will tell you what he thinks, and you can give him correct guidance instead of just guessing what happened to him.

5. Provide a platform for children. Another feature of adolescent children is the imbalance of cognition and life experience. If parents don't let go and give their children a chance to practice, their children will be even less confident. As for teenagers, children must be allowed to make decisions. Many adolescent children are expressing why they should make decisions for me and why they don't respect my ideas. As parents, you can let your children touch the south wall and find their immaturity. After several disappointments, children will naturally have a new understanding of themselves. It is not wise to make decisions for children. Being a parent who can let go properly will accelerate the growth of children.

6. Learn to be considerate of children. Everyone will go through this rebellious period, so parents must be considerate of their children. Let children walk better and go further. Of course, stay calm.