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Fathers often beat and scold their children. Is this the right way of education?
There is an old saying: the dutiful son comes from the bottom of the stick, and the strict teacher comes from the high disciple. Every parent wants their children not to lose at the starting line, so parents are particularly strict with their children's education. However, in real life, because some children are willful and disobedient, fathers often beat and scold their children when they make mistakes. For this phenomenon, we must first affirm that the father's starting point is good, and we must consider for the children. However, if children are often beaten and scolded, a series of problems may arise. Let's introduce the influence of fathers who often beat and scold their children.

1, the child's expression ability is particularly poor.

Most children are lively and lovely. Because fathers often beat and scold their children, there will be shadows in their hearts. When they want to show themselves, they are a little scared. Maybe crying is their only expression. In fact, when the father starts to beat and scold the child, the child may still resist, but as time goes by, when it is found that the resistance is ineffective, the child gradually stops resisting, which eventually leads to the poor expression ability of the child.

The child's character has become eccentric.

Every child's growing environment and his own situation will be different. As time goes on, children will become more and more different. For example, some children are lively and cheerful, and some children become particularly eccentric. In life, we find that children who are often beaten become particularly depressed when they grow up. Because such children will have a psychological hint that when they make mistakes, they will be punished by their fathers. The common punishment is beating and cursing.

3. Abnormal psychological development

Children who are often beaten will have abnormal psychological development. Some children are particularly timid. They are afraid to ask their parents for advice when they encounter problems and become indecisive when they grow up.

Through the above introduction, we find that if fathers often beat and scold their children, it will have a serious impact on their physiology and psychology. I hope parents can educate their children in a different way, and try to fight and scold less or not.