It is worth mentioning that parents also reported many after-school classes for their children. Mom and dad do all this in the hope that their children will get better and better. Will children really get better when they encounter many times their own learning pressure? Some children perform very well mainly in the initial study and training. With the help of their parents, they not only learned the content of this course one academic year in advance, but also established a good foundation, which made it easier for them to learn and train other professional knowledge. In the eyes of teachers and classmates, such children become wizards, but in just one school year, their self-learning ability has plummeted, and at the same time, their parents are also very confused. Obviously, they are clever children. Why did it end like this?
It is obvious that parents ignored this point. There is nothing wrong with teaching children some professional knowledge in the early stage, but it is more important for parents to teach their children the ability of autonomous learning so that they can learn independently. When children encounter difficulties in their studies, they can get rid of them themselves instead of trying to avoid learning and training. Although there is nothing wrong with advanced education, the way will obviously harm children.
1. The child has not developed the habit of modesty. The child didn't cultivate modesty in his studies. In the early stage of children's learning and training, parents will impart this professional knowledge to teaching materials. Although children's learning and training are very smooth and praised by teachers and classmates in colleges and universities, the defect is that children are very prone to arrogance and even despise their self-study ability in future studies. Because children have learned this kind of professional knowledge in books in advance, self-identity is one-sided, and teachers can't concentrate in class. If you can't keep up with the course, you don't even know what you did wrong. Therefore, parents must cultivate their children's modest self-study ability while educating them.
2. Children can't have their own preferences. Parents attach great importance to their children's academic performance, killing everything else their children like. When children are interested in other things, parents always say, "You can't do it, it will endanger the exam results." This makes children feel very sad, and even produces psychological rejection to study and training. Parents should not take away their children's other hobbies under the banner of learning and training, which will always make their children more and more disgusted with learning and training, and parents can't recover it immediately. So, sometimes there is no need to be too strict. Children should be given a variety of hobbies, so that they have a heartfelt impulse and passion for learning and training.
3. Effective overall planning and cultivation of reading habits Children's excellent reading habits will also increase the parallel lines of test scores. Children should learn to plan their time effectively. Cultivating good habits is also the first step to success, which is also conducive to the development of children, not only learning and training happily, but also shaping personal hobbies. In addition, if children want to mold appropriate values, they can learn knowledge from extensive reading. The professional knowledge accumulated through reading will also be of great help to children's daily study and training. Naturally, while shaping children's interest in actively reading articles, we should also let children actively express their expectations for learning, training and professional knowledge.
Parents don't have to add a lot of work pressure to their children in the whole process of early cultural education, otherwise the children will cause rebellious psychology in adolescence and refuse to study and train from the heart. Therefore, the most scientific research method is to apply appropriate professional knowledge transfer. Every child is very good in the hearts of parents. Three to six years old is also a key stage to cultivate reading habits. Parents should also shape their children, not overnight, but learn to shape them bit by bit. Parents should not take their children's academic achievements too seriously. What they have to do is to shape children's self-learning ability, and the most important thing is their learning attitude. Lev tolstoy once said: It is ok to raise a child even if it is an old hen, but educating a child well through culture is a plastic arts. Therefore, parents must educate their children in an appropriate way in the process of their growth, so that their children can develop better and better. People expect all children to be physically and mentally healthy, and their parents will be their correct guides.