When we discussed this problem with Dongming that day, we were all extremely disgusted with this behavior. When eating out, I really always see that many parents will severely scold their children for various things (far more than eating itself) when eating. Why do parents like to educate their children at the dinner table instead of elsewhere? I think that may be the reason.

Not a good time to educate children.

Eating is by no means a good time to educate children.

talk time

It is a good idea to set a fixed "heart-to-heart time". At this time, it is best to talk when everyone is relaxed and there is nothing else busy. Family meetings or one-on-one chats can vent emotions and solve problems in time.

Outsiders are present

In front of outsiders, parents' acceptance will be reduced, and children's ability to "listen to their parents" and psychological endurance will also be reduced. Education on this occasion will not only make it difficult for parents to control their emotions, but also hurt their children's self-esteem.

Enhance parent-child relationship

Especially for parents who don't spend much time with their children, a relaxing meal can enhance the parent-child relationship.

Protect children's self-esteem

If you really think that your child's behavior is unbearable, you can take your child away from the crowd or the environment and express it in a relatively private place in a harmless way. This can protect children's self-esteem, make it easier for children to listen to their parents, and parents' emotions will become more stable.