Generally speaking, the behavior that may bring psychological trauma to children is that they never hit them, only occasionally give them a slap or a stick, and then the children will remember it for life. However, if we often hit the child and the child is used to it, then he will not hold grudges or complain that we hit him. He knows that he did make mistakes, and the consequences of these mistakes are bound to be beaten, and he will accept it frankly, because he feels that it is useless to resist fate, but it may be worse.
Of course, beating children is also an art, which needs careful consideration. If the child's behavior is really stubborn, his mistake is really big enough, or he really violates our authority, then it is very necessary to teach the child a lesson.
However, if the child only makes some small mistakes, or even no mistakes at all, we will hit him at will and use violence, which is very painful for the child. He will feel that there is no warmth in this family, and it will always be full of indifference and violence. No one will understand him, so he won't feel happy.
At this time, the children who were taught were either extremely introverted and passive towards Nuo Nuo, and their future was bleak, or they were extremely advocating violence and always resorting to violence, hoping to conquer and possess others by violence. Both of them are the result of beating children excessively, and both of them make children go to extremes, so we should also be cautious.