I always thought that the only way to be bullied was to "fight violence with violence", until I saw an American father's counterattack on the social platform, which made me feel like a textbook and worth learning from parents in China.
This American father married our China daughter-in-law, and it was because of this 8-year-old mixed-race daughter that she was discriminated against and bullied. When his 8-year-old daughter cried because of being bullied, the American father couldn't help being angry, but he told himself to calm down.
His wife suggested that she tell the teacher. Unexpectedly, her 8-year-old daughter cried and said, "No, my classmates will call her an informer!" " The American father also believes that only by fundamentally letting his daughter learn to solve problems by herself.
He thinks the worst way is to punish and criticize those children who bully others. How much do children know about discrimination and bullying? The root of the problem lies in their parents! So the American father launched his own perfect counterattack, which was divided into two ways.
The first method is to let the daughter think about what children of this age like best. Bubble gum is still a toy sticker, and my daughter's answer is sticker, so American dad took his daughter to buy a lot of the best stickers.
The next day, my daughter will share these stickers with her good friends, and the children who bully her will also want them. At this time, as long as these children accept this gift, they will change their minds and start to like to play with their daughters and become friends.
The second way is for him to find parents who bully his daughter and children, but this is not to settle accounts with them but to invite them to eat hot pot. Let them know what their home is like and say nothing about their daughter being bullied.
The American father stressed that he must be especially kind to them and treat them sincerely! This will naturally change parents' ideas and let children get the right education from their parents. This video has won 6.5438+0.4 million praises on social platforms, which shows that many people agree with this education method.
Looking for teachers and parents, children can't solve problems by themselves; Fight violence with violence, there will always be people stronger than you, and sooner or later you will suffer! So I think this solution to the problem of being bullied is more brilliant.
I have to say that this American father's approach is very clever, and in this case, we can see that it is very correct for an 8-year-old girl to tell her parents in time after being bullied. This is also the warning given to children by Professor Wang Dawei, a safety education expert: Tell adults when she is bullied.
It can be seen that the safety education of this family is in place. As we all know, the school bullying problem in the United States is very serious. American society and schools all believe that the root of preventing school bullying phenomenon lies in education and re-education.
Before children go to kindergarten, parents should popularize safety knowledge to their children through safety education picture books. After American children go to primary school, the school will make detailed plans to face school bullying and pay more attention to emotional education. It can be seen that they have made great efforts in safety education.
And this is what many of our parents ignore! Therefore, children's safety education should start before kindergarten. Professor Wang Dawei, an expert in safety education, believes that children can easily accept and remember fairy tales and nursery rhymes.