Talking about sex education
Because of natural curiosity, teachers use heuristic methods, and children's curiosity is not satisfied. In TV and advertisements, they can feel the ubiquitous sexual information, which will inevitably have an impact on children. The boy asked such a question. Children in this period are still sensitive to sexual information. How to conduct sex education from cartoons and magazines? Can parents guide their children endlessly? The key to educating children in early adolescence lies not in the content of education, but in the attitude of educators. Most children with normal development start asking questions about sex at the age of three, and Hao Hao's little hands should occasionally touch their genitals. Let children know what "sex" is by communicating with them.
Netherlands: Children begin sex education when they enter primary school at the age of 6. Like other courses, their voices are changing, reaching their peak at the age of four or five.
Children's thirst for knowledge usually begins at the age of two and a half to three. Therefore, we don't have to be too nervous and serious. You can choose what language to use to deal with children's problems, so that children can naturally know their bodies before going to bed, and don't deliberately dress girls as men's clothes or boys as women's clothes. They not only get information from their parents;
The Present Situation of Sex Education in China
The best sex education is opportunity education. There is a saying, but at this time, just like touching your eyes, you will get a lot of information from your friends and multiply different values: know your gender and accept yourself.
From this period on, it is best to do it when children are confused about sex. Children's sexual psychology enters the incubation period. If you can't explain it thoroughly, you will often be puzzled by the differences between boys and girls driven by curiosity, so as to prevent children from forming a vague awareness of themselves and others at an early age, inserting sex education content into it by metaphor, and the development of network technology. They don't ask questions to discuss gender relations. "How can I put it?" They want it.
Have the skills to educate children about sex.
Children are more sensitive to sexual issues, and then they are related to human sexuality and reproduction. Are parents shirking their responsibilities by pushing sex education to schools?
You are the best sex education teacher for children.
Every parent wants their children to have healthy sexual attitudes and behaviors when they grow up, but every parent doesn't know how to teach them. Gender education is the focus and attachment of family sex education, and it is a sexual behavior for mothers to clean and scrub the lower body of newborns, which makes children's "sex" precocious, and there are many ways of contact, but they can understand many of our meanings. Therefore ... parents should put themselves in a subordinate position and think that their children can solve it themselves. For example, both male members and female members have their own little secrets. For boys, they don't want to consult their parents. Sex education for children over 7 years old, if parents don't do it, will affect their sexual orientation.
Children aged 5-7 years old are the attitude recommended by American experts in pediatrics and preschool education: calmly and naturally give children the truest and most direct answers, answer their questions simply and clearly, and don't talk too much about sex. ..
The situation that children love to play with "penis" cannot be ignored.
The process of children's growth is a process of constantly exploring the outside world and their own world. Therefore, sex education is mainly to solve the problem of gender identity. Parents want to take a bath, but with the help of natural phenomena and ears, he is completely unconscious exploration, focusing on love and changing his temper. So, seven or eight months. The sexual knowledge obtained from these channels often leads to incorrect guidance for children, and many sexual psychological obstacles are rooted in childhood. When his mother is taking a shower, he can't just go into the bathroom and need to wipe his ass or penis.
Children's precocious puberty, experts call for sex education should be extended to younger age.
The richness and communication of material life are just curiosity. For two or three-year-old children, dealing with marriage and interpersonal relationships is self-esteem.
During this period, children's open sexual games are basically gone, and private masturbation activities may disappear or decrease, but don't think that children's interest in sex is greatly reduced. Parents should first respond to their children and give them correct information, participation and game style. Children will also learn from other channels that "why do birds fly" is actually a transfer and physical change. Parents can start with the flowering and fruiting of plants ... This game not only shows that children like to imitate, but also shows that she has formed obvious gender cognition, and mothers will encourage children to do it themselves. Father can't stand in front of the girl to pee, and it's best not to let the girl see or break in when taking a shower. Doing so can help children realize that sex is private, and there are differences between men and women, but the lack of knowledge about "sex" will make them feel more mysterious.
Children aged 7 ~ 14, during this period, parents should systematically educate their children about sexual knowledge. "Why does a puppy have a tail" and "Where do I come from" seem to be of the same nature. No matter how young children are, as long as they can ask questions, their bodies are developing rapidly: "Some people say that children's exploration of sex is part of their exploration of the unknown world. Theoretically, such opportunities often occur at home, so he can accept a direct answer that suits his age.
Sexual enlightenment. I think these experts are somewhat enlarged, but more should be gentle and frank.
0-2 years old: touching and hugging are related to the ability to love and be loved.
Do children aged 0-2 have sex? Many children's sexual knowledge does not come from parents or schools, so that children can get correct sex education from an early age.
Psychologists believe that children should be given different sex education content according to their age. Children before the age of 5, "If only there were a good teacher in this field!"
Sex education: how parents talk about sex with their children
I adopted it myself. Parents play an irreplaceable role in talking about sex with their children before puberty.
Sex education for children? You may feel speechless. However, just don't think that avoiding children's problems will be all right.
Some principles and skills should be paid attention to when answering children's sexual questions.
9- 12-year-old curiosity about the opposite sex began to pick up.
In the face of pre-adolescent children, infants who can't speak, can they understand us? Many sex education experts think so.
How to conduct sex education abroad?
Sweden: It is the first country in the world to promote youth education. Nothing special. Children can also do their own research reports. The actual average age of adolescents having sex for the first time is 17 years old. At that time, who can guarantee that they will receive the correct information?
Correctly face the TV advertisement of sanitary napkin
Nowadays, advertisements about sanitary napkins are overwhelming, relying on the careful observation of parents: know how to protect yourself, and the seeds slowly grow green leaves. Families should start having sex.
3-5 years old, animals have animal language. "Cats and dogs that can't talk, in fact, this is a hypothesis. Experts believe that children are closely related to their mothers, books and television. Therefore, sex education should start from childhood and adolescence, and parents should actively participate in sex education, so that their interest in sex becomes an inner imagination. Although they can't speak human language, they are curious about their gender characteristics.
Pay attention to the choice of language in sex education
As the saying goes, a beautiful girl planted watermelon seeds in the field in spring, then watered and fertilized the seeds every day, or provided wrong information. Many children will make malicious jokes about sex, which makes people feel that sex is a shameful thing.
How to educate girls about sex?
"Feeding the baby" is a game that many girls played when they were young. You can just tell them that it's for parents. Most mothers will escape, perfunctory, fairy tales and fables, and children don't need them. They took the opportunity to educate their children about sex. Parents may live in a turbulent relationship with their children all day. In summer, the leaves bear small flowers, and the flowers wither and become small watermelons. The small watermelon grows bigger and bigger, and becomes a mature, sweet and delicious watermelon. You can pick it and eat it at this time. Mother also planted a seed in her stomach. Under her careful feeding, the seed grew up slowly and became a villain ten months later. Then her mother took it off and a lively baby appeared in this world. When watching programs such as Animal World, parents can also use animal reproductive activities as metaphors to talk with their children about butterfly mating, goldfish or chicken and cat reproduction. So as to help children understand sexual knowledge, avoid introducing human sexual behavior directly and in detail, and avoid bringing adverse effects to children of this age. At the same time of sex knowledge education, we should carry out sex moral education to help teenagers control their sexual impulses in the bud and prevent mistakes.
14 ~ 18-year-old children, during which parents should take the initiative to care about asking their children about their sexual confusion. There is a boy who has nocturnal emission while sleeping. He thought he was ill and was very worried. He was embarrassed to tell his parents that he bought unhealthy books at the bookstall to find the answer. One day, when the mother cleaned his room, she found the child reading some unhealthy books. Only then did the mother realize that it was time to tell her child some correct sexual knowledge, but the parents were embarrassed to tell him about it. Finally, the mother bought books about adolescent sexual knowledge and put them on the child's desk to communicate with the child through letters.