There is a joke that there are three kinds of birds in this world, one is soaring, the other is flying but not wanting to fly, and the other is the most annoying. They can't fly, so they hatch from their eggs and say to them, fly! Fly!

It sounds funny at first sight. Think carefully, how many parents are the third kind of birds?

I have a headache reading alone, and then I ask my child: You give me a good book!

Brush the phone, turn on the TV, and then ask the child: write for me!

Tell my children earnestly every day that this is the end of my life. You must study hard! Then, a lot of time was spent eating and drinking, and I turned to let my children cherish time! My hopes are pinned on you!

You yearn for your child to become a phoenix every day. As soon as the score drops, your mouth will bubble with anxiety. As soon as the score is high, you can eat two more bowls of rice happily. However, you forget that your children have never seen dragons and phoenixes since childhood. He can only see what you look like.

In the end, you will find that the child has not become a dragon or a phoenix, but has become your appearance. And you, do you want your children to be like you?

If you love children, you should set yourself as their role model. From living habits to spiritual character, you are the benchmark for children.

Some parents throw rubbish when their children run red lights. How can we make children know how to be civilized?

Some parents, who only pursue eating, drinking and having fun, have long forgotten what learning is. How can we raise a child who loves learning?

Some parents are lazy and muddle through everything. How can you expect your children to be positive?

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To tell the truth, after being a teacher for a long time, I have found a cruel fact more and more: no matter how much I care about my students, I can't compare with the influence of his family on him. I no longer have that kind of virgin mentality and want to save a student. Because I understand that I am just an ordinary person and have no ability to train every student to be a success. When I first realized this, I was depressed. I also laugh at my innocence. Do you really think that teaching for two years a year can change a child's life?

It is the parents behind the children who ultimately decide how far they can go and how high they can fly.

So I am writing this article, and I want to use my weak strength to shout and wake up some parents who are still dreaming about their children.

Honestly, I'm the one who hasn't become a phoenix. I sincerely hope that my students will not repeat my mistakes. I know, this is wishful thinking, too. Even if this article can wake up a parent, I am satisfied.

If you say, I don't know how to be a role model for children. I have three small suggestions:

00 1 Ask the children who they admire most. Why worship him? Write down the answers.

Ask the child what kind of mother (father) he wants his mother (father) to be, and write down the answer.

Think about what kind of person you want your child to be. Write down key words.

Then look at the note in your hand and compare it with yourself. You're not doing well enough. Don't be discouraged. Just work hard in this direction.

Li Ka-shing said that the success of any career can't make up for the failure of children's education. I want to say that no success can compare with the success of educating children, and the secret of successful education is that you will always be a role model for children!

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