1. Your own children must be better than others.
In the process of educating their children, some parents often have some behaviors of comparing with others. This kind of comparison behavior is not to compare one's own material, but to compare the other's children. For example, some parents compare their children with those of their neighbors. Parents are envious when they see that the children next door have excellent academic performance and can sing and dance well. Often, parents will force their children to study hard and try to learn other talents, and they must let their children surpass the children in the next door. However, every child is different, and it is useless for parents to insist. Finally, children are unwilling to learn, and parents will feel very tired.
2. Have high hopes for children
There is also a kind of parents who didn't study hard when they were young, or didn't work hard when they should have, which created some ordinary lives. Such parents often don't want to live their ordinary lives, but they are old, so these have become lifelong regrets, but parents often pin these regrets on their children and want them to fulfill these dreams for themselves, but each child is an independent individual, and it is often parents who have children's dreams.
3. In order to raise children and prevent old age
Not all parents are selfless in the process of raising children. In fact, most parents raise their children for the purpose of preventing old age, which is not simply taking care of themselves. On the contrary, I had a lot of expectations for the child at the moment when he landed. I hope this child can become very rich. I expect this child to study hard. I hope this child can make himself worry-free in the future. Therefore, parents will also work harder to train their children in education. If children don't develop as they think, parents will be disappointed and tired.