How to educate rebellious children? 1, avoid talking about grades. When parents communicate with their children, they don't want teachers to talk about their children's learning problems, which will only make them feel psychological pressure. When communicating, parents can start with family affairs and let their children's emotions stabilize before talking about business.
2. Strengthen communication and change mentality. When the child shows abnormal signs, parents should communicate with the child at the first time, which will also narrow the spiritual distance between parents and children. Of course, different ways of communication will be different, so we should pay attention to the way of communication, and at the same time learn to put ourselves in other's shoes, and don't look at children's behavior unilaterally.
3. Don't make moral judgments. For children's rebellious behavior, parents should not label their children as disobedient, unintelligent, emotional and weak-willed, but look at them with a developmental perspective. Rebellion is a normal phenomenon for all people. At this time, in the communication with children, we should pay attention to reducing their moral judgment, and don't make mistakes or have some improper behaviors online.
4. Open yourself up. Parents think this is a wrong behavior, and it may be an absolute heroic behavior in the eyes of children. Find out the reason and take circuitous tactics. When parents find that children's interests will affect homework, don't ban it immediately. Better know more about the situation. For example, accompany children to do something they are interested in, or discuss their idols with them, so as to grasp their minds and remind them what to learn and what not to learn in time.
5. Give children free space. Children need their own living space, realize their dreams and wishes, have their own privacy and secrets, have their own dignity, respect their children, and they will be respected by them.
6. Build self-confidence. Help children build self-confidence, don't compare with others, don't compare with others, do their daily work well, learn what they should learn, and then do what they like.