1: When boys and girls reach a certain age, they must attract the attention of the opposite sex. These are actually the highlights of adolescence. Parents can discuss it with their children. Where are the two children attracted to each other? For example, boys will look at beautiful, gentle and generous girls. Girls will look at a handsome guy with good grades, or something attracts her. In the process of communication, parents should never deny the child's object, but should praise the child appropriately. "Well, my son has a good eye. If such a good girl can fall in love with my son, she must be deeply attracted by a handsome and responsible boy like my son. "
2. Empathy, tell me about such a thing that happened when my mother was a student, or the case of my classmates around me! For example, "My mother once liked a boy in junior high school, and he was very beautiful, but the boy's grades were particularly excellent, so since then my mother has worked very hard and studied very hard just to let the boy notice her." So, son, since you like that girl so much, should we keep each other excellent or even play better?
3. Guide children to correctly look at the feelings of students' love in their own time, how to learn to grasp their own discretion and not do things they will regret later!
Son, I don't object to not falling in love with my mother early, but what my mother wants to tell her baby is that you have grown up, and there are some things you can do, but there are also some things you can't do. For example, protecting the safety of girls is not only to protect girls from bullying, but also to control our discretion and protect their health, which is responsible for you and her. My son is so responsible and responsible, and my mother believes it.
4. Use their relationship to turn to the opposite direction to encourage each other to learn, set goals together and fight for their future!
Son, do you know how to bring security to the girl you like? Boys who have plans, goals and ideals for the future are the ones who can really bring girls a sense of security and happiness, and the ones that girls want to entrust for life! It is necessary to strive to be an excellent object in the eyes of girls forever, and not to drag each other down. On the contrary, you two can encourage each other and set goals for each other, so that if the girl's parents find out one day, they won't be too opposed to your relationship, will they?