Everyone comes from this age, so we should fully understand that some behaviors of children are caused by hormonal changes, and if parents continue to educate their children with parental authority or some extreme ideas at this time, it will naturally have a certain reaction, so we must learn to understand children, understand their inner thoughts, and give them affirmation and encouragement!
Don't think these changes of children are unreasonable. You know, this is the only way for children to grow up, and it is also a process that everyone will experience. Only by knowing children can we walk into them and help them overcome the problem of rebellious period!
2. Don't say "no" to children easily.
For rebellious children, what they want is our affirmation, definitely not our negation, so many parents habitually say no to their children, which may make them bored! This will aggravate the rebellious period of children.
So everyone should pay attention. We need to have confidence in our children. Only certain children are willing to tell us their inner thoughts and let us help them analyze and make judgments. No matter what their children do, there must be their reasons. Only by knowing their reasons can we come up with a solution. Parents must pay attention to it. If they often say no to their children, they will refuse to communicate with their parents, so it will be more difficult to get along!
3. Full communication
In the process of communicating with children, we must pay attention to ways and means. We should not oppress them with the authority of parents, but stand in a state of relatively equal. We shouldn't try to pry into children's privacy, but let them reveal it to us themselves. This may be difficult.
Parents should establish such a trust relationship when their children are still young. The best relationship is to be friends with children. Don't let them think of my parents, but let them trust you enough to help them solve their problems instead of confusing them. Only in this way can children open their hearts to communicate!