1. Don't care too much about children. Things that children could have done by themselves, such as eating, brushing teeth and changing clothes, are taken care of by grandparents. Excessive care makes children lose the opportunity to exercise their growth ability.

2. Don't over supervise children. If you are afraid of children making mistakes, you should allow them to make mistakes, urge them to do everything, and often check their behavior. It is easy for children to form dependence and inertia, as well as distrust of children.

Don't punish children too severely. This kind of education method originates from the traditional educational concept of "the dutiful son is born under the stick". They feel that children should be strictly disciplined, with more criticism than encouragement and more punishment than reward. This kind of education is also easy for children to have serious inferiority, autism or rebellious psychology.

4. Grandparents, as grandchildren's life mentors, should give priority to imparting life wisdom and social experience, so that parents of children can freely manage education and keep consistent with their parents' educational ideas. In case of conflict, it is not appropriate to communicate in front of children.

There are many ways to educate children, which are not necessarily suitable for their own children. We should follow the common educational concept. The real success is to make the child's personality perfect.