Fu Lei is a good father who can educate his children with such mentality and patience. How on earth did Fu Lei have this power? This great fatherly love can be said to have influenced Fu Cong's life and laid a solid foundation for Fu Cong's future. Therefore, these letters written by Fu Lei are very important, giving Fu Cong a life lesson and letting him know how to live in this world.

This is really a good book to educate children, and it should also be a good book to let children know their parents. Children can learn about their parents through this book, and parents can learn about their children through this book. Every word and sentence written by Fu Lei in his letter has become a classic and an immortal classic.

As a father, Fu Lei has rich feelings for his children, and he is never harsh on them. He attaches great importance to Fu Cong's music career. Fu Cong cares about everything in his career, which makes Fu Cong very moved.

In fact, the father around us is as ordinary and great as Fu Lei. Our father often whitens his hair for our livelihood, for our study, for us to go to a good school and for us to get a good grade. This is the real greatness, this is the real father! Fu Lei can be said to be an outstanding representative among the ten thousand fathers of Qian Qian and Qian Qian. His love for children makes them grow up healthily.

Fu Cong's mother also played an important role in these letters. She also wrote some letters to her children. The letter is full of care and love for the children. Similarly, she was very concerned about Fu Cong's music career, which made Fu Cong very moved, and he also understood how important his mother's love was to him.

This letter "Fu Lei's Letter" really made me understand a lot of truth, and also made me better understand what my parents were thinking, so that I could better communicate with my parents.

I am very grateful for this book, which is about the true love of parents!

Notes on Fu Lei's Letters II

During the summer vacation, I read the letter written by teacher Fu Lei to Fu Lei, which made me feel Fu Lei's deep love for my son. Fu Lei and his wife wrote nearly 100 letters to their son Fu Cong, and the lines between them were pure and simple, touching. From the book, I know that Fu Lei is a very careful person. He cares about his son in every way, from philosophy of life to treating people. Fu Lei loves his son, but he doesn't spoil him. He carefully raised his son, hoping that he would become a patriotic and indifferent person. How can such a father not be admirable? . In the letter, Fu Lei wrote to his son: "Writing a long letter to you is not empty nagging, not inexplicable gossip, but has several functions. First, I really regard you as a discussion about art ... in terms of playing. " What sincere and touching words, Fu Lei pinned his concern and training for his son in all aspects on this letter. He hopes that his son will know the honor and disgrace of the country and the dignity of art, and that he will become an artist with excellent morality and art. In his letters from home, there is a deep affection between the lines, as if parents and children are not only relatives, but also friends who talk about everything. There is such a sentence in the book that I still remember: "People's life is floating in the high tide-low tide. Only mediocre people live like a stagnant pool; Or you must have a high level of self-cultivation in order not to be tired and truly free. " What a profound sentence! When we face success, we should be modest and calm, and when we face failure, we should be proactive. Life is a ups and downs of music, and these ups and downs constitute a wonderful life. Only by facing it frankly can we be truly happy. This sentence gave me a deep inspiration, and I will definitely remember it forever.

Notes on Fu Lei's Reading Letters from Home (Ⅲ)

During the summer vacation, I read a book called Letters from Fu Lei, which impressed me deeply.

Fu Lei is a famous literary translator and critic in China. He is a knowledgeable, wise and upright scholar, and a person with great personality.

His father, Fu Lei, dabbled in a wide range, made profound research on literature, music, painting and both at home and abroad, and his personal cultural accomplishment was extremely high. The object of his training is to receive a good family education from an early age and finally grow into Fu Cong, the son of an international master. He deeply understands that art, even like piano playing, needs strict technical factors, but it is by no means a "craft", but a manifestation of wholehearted and complete personality.

After reading Letters from Fu Lei, I was really moved by Mr. Fu Lei's seriousness about life and his care for children. Letters from home range from career and art of living to eating, dressing and spending money. Parents can learn how to educate their children, art students, especially piano students, can learn how to improve their skills, and friends who are interested in the history from the early liberation to the Cultural Revolution can also get some understanding from Fu Lei's description. Fu Lei's spirit of loving his son deeply touched me.

Fu Lei is good at analyzing himself in letters, admitting mistakes in front of children, and giving experiences and lessons from his own experiences. So, I want to read Fu Lei's book. We should be reading Fu Lei himself. Fu Lei also teaches students in accordance with their aptitude. In Fu Cong's music education, he initially emphasized skills, and then repeatedly asked him to really understand the work itself. Noble parents raise successful children. Both the children raised by Mr. and Mrs. Fu Lei are very successful.

After reading this book, I know my parents better. Let me know that children should communicate with their parents more and get to know each other. Notes on 500 words of Letters from Fu Lei

Notes on Fu Lei's Letters (Chapter IV)

First, Fu Lei loves his son deeply.

"Dear child, the day after you left, you want to write a letter, for fear that you will feel bored, that's all. But I miss you every day and wake up at six or seven every morning. I can't sleep over and over again, and I can't tell why. It seems that Christophe's mother stayed at home alone and remembered the images of the children's childhood scenes. Your mother and I always think of your little story between the ages of 23 and 67. "

The above passage is taken from a letter written by Fu Lei to his son Fu Cong. From the above statement, it can be seen between the lines that Fu Lei loves his son deeply. For my grown-up son, I hope he will thrive and develop outward, but I can't bear to let the child stay away from him. In fact, parents are like this. From conception in August to delivery in 10, parents have worked hard to raise their children step by step, hoping that their children will be useful in the future and will not sleep on the streets. However, when children become talents, it is also time to leave the eaves and fly alone. As parents, we are both happy and sad for them. After all, it is flesh and blood. As we should appreciate and understand the hard work of our parents, let them see what they want to see-our happy life, which is also a reward for their painstaking parenting.

Second, Fu Lei encouraged his son.

"As far as playing is concerned, I think the overall performance is good and full of energy. The delicate place is very delicate and there are indeed many changes. We are all very happy and moved. Good boy, I really should give you some compliments. Looking back 195 1 when you first returned to Shanghai from Kunming in April, you really walked halfway up the mountain from the low-lying land. I hope that you will pay attention to the whole cultivation from now on, and you will definitely reach the top in the future. "

This is Mr. Fu Lei's evaluation of his son Fu Cong after listening to his recording. This includes teacher Fu's recording of his son, careful analysis and objective appreciation. Later I mentioned my hope for my son. This is the way parents educate their children. It is necessary to show their affirmation of children, so that children have the determination to work hard and the confidence to succeed. On the other hand, I also put forward my own hopes and pointed out the direction of progress and development for the children. As children, we should also learn from our parents' experience, learn from each other's strengths, and open up our own new path on the road guided by our parents.

Third, Fu Lei's charge.

"In institutions, it is inevitable to catch up with tasks and hinder normal study. This is what I expected. Everything can only be won by ourselves with a firm will and position, and we can be gentle and powerful to the leaders. How much can I prepare for going abroad? -especially in music, I have been uneasy. From now on, everywhere depends on your personal perseverance, belief and will-the will to practice. "

Although parents have a thousand words of advice, they can't let go. As a parent, my son has mixed feelings about how to deal with the changing society. With his own experience, remind his son to take less complaints and take more shortcuts. This is the idea of parents all over the world. Children are the continuation of parents' lives and the hope of holding up the sun in their hearts. Parents don't want their children to repeat the same mistakes, but hope that their children can "go up a storey still higher" than themselves. Adolescence should put aside rebellious psychology, listen to parents' lessons and understand their pains. In fact, this is also for our own good, so that our future life can be more relaxed and happy.

Fourth, mother's concern.

"I hope you put all your energy into the study of knowledge, with more reason and less emotion. Of course, you need to rely on your strong confidence to control all your troubles. This is not an easy task, but it must be overcome. I have never been involved in any opinions about your emotional problems. I think you are making progress in all aspects. You are a smart man, you will realize it yourself. Since I am your mother and we are flesh and blood, we have to nag and persuade. "

It should be said that mother is cautious. The father has good intentions for his son's future, while the mother starts from the most delicate place-the son's emotional problems, giving him a clear direction. Tell him how to deal with his feelings and career, and let his son understand the key points. We should also learn from Fu Lei's wife. We should understand our priorities, our tasks, our road and direction, what we should and should not do, and grasp the direction. This will contribute to our success.

V. Fu Lei loves his son.

"Son, I tease you, I will always be sorry for you, and I will never make amends! These thoughts have never left my mind all day, but I dare not tell your mother that if you do something wrong in your life, your conscience will never be at peace! Really, Balzac said it well: some sins can only be redeemed and cannot be washed away! "

When leaving, father Fu Lei blamed himself for being strict with his son and being "cruel", which turned out to be his own fault. Well, in fact, this is the love for my son! If you don't work hard when you are young, your boss will be sad! When his son was young, Mr. Fu Lei was strict and meticulous with his son, and "cruelly abused" his son Fu Cong. Sounds like a joke. Where would a father abuse his own flesh and blood? As the saying goes, a stick makes a dutiful son, and Mr. Fu Lei uses strict father to make a gifted scholar. When our parents are "violent" to us, we should have an understanding attitude and understand our parents' anxiety. Because they did it for us, and they hated iron for not turning into steel. After all, parents have the desire to make their children successful and their daughters successful!

Sixth, summary: the image of Fu Lei.

Reading the whole article is just like talking to teacher Fu Lei. One vivid image of Fu Lei is displayed in front of me, as if Fu Lei is my father, inculcating me. What impressed Mr. Fu Lei most was that he loved his son deeply and disciplined him well. I have read "Affirm Yourself" written by Liu Yong before, which is also a warning to my son. The lines between the lines reflect Liu Yong's love for his son. Both books show love and discipline for their sons. But they are essentially different. Letters from Fu Lei tells us how to grasp our own mentality and how to improve our studies and careers, while Affirming Yourself tells us more about an open mind and an independent concept.

When I came into contact with Fu Lei's Letters from Fu Lei, I realized that this was China's traditional but advanced thought. I appreciate the learning methods that Mr. Fu Lei told my son, but I don't like the way that Mr. Fu Lei vented his feelings for his son. Compared with Liu Yong, Mr. Fu is more reserved and conservative.

From the book, I realized the painstaking care of my parents. They strive to create a good learning environment for me, let me study in a comfortable place, and strive to create a good living environment for the future and live a life without food and clothing. They have worked hard! And we still don't understand the truth. The rebellious mentality is getting stronger every day, ignoring parents' difficulties and going its own way. In fact, we are the last to lose! Without talent and level, how can we face the increasingly fierce social competition in the future? In fact, to put it bluntly, how can you make money if you don't study? Where to eat without money? I think we should understand our parents' pains, study hard and repay our parents!

Notes on Fu Lei's Letters (Chapter 5)

"After three months of war, a letter from home is worth a ton of gold." Letters, as a way to maintain feelings between Wan Li's lost relatives, have had extraordinary significance since ancient times. A letter between father and son can have such great influence and get so much recognition, which is the difference between Fu Lei's letter and ordinary letters from home.

My father, Fu Lei, is a wise, knowledgeable and upright scholar, who has a broad understanding of literature, music and painting and has a profound study at home and abroad. Mother Zhu Meifu is an oriental woman with oriental cultural accomplishment and has been baptized by western culture. She is dignified, virtuous and kind.

Father Fu Lei trained Fu Cong, the son of an international master, who received a good family education since childhood. He deeply understands that art, even like piano playing, needs strict technical factors, but it is by no means a "craft", but a manifestation of wholehearted and complete personality. He educated his son and said, "I always think that the most important thing is' people', whether in study or art. Before you become an artist, you should learn to be a man, otherwise such a family will not make much contribution to mankind no matter how smart it is. A person who is purely committed to art has nothing but art and personal personality. " The so-called "person" is concrete and subtle in Fu Lei's mind. It is not only a wish, but also a slogan. From loyalty and dedication to the world, to strictness in one's career, filial piety to parents, understanding of his wife, tolerance to friends, even the handling of a piece of music, the communication of a friend, and even the words and deeds of his son. All these make readers deeply impressed and deeply touched.

In that sinister era, when personal safety was not guaranteed, her heart was connected with her distant son and grandson. She restrained her inner fears and pains and gave her strong, peaceful and meticulous care to her relatives who were wandering in foreign countries. Sweaters knitted for her grandson one after another are as heavy as mountains, but she is uneasy about "gifts"; In order to let her son feel the warmth of family in a foreign country, she meticulously wrote down the cooking program for fear of missing a detail; She loved her husband and son and devoted her life to this family. However, in order to prevent her personal dignity from being trampled and insulted, the husband and wife combined their lives and moved towards eternity. . . Perhaps it is more eccentric, which is a perfect ending.

As role models of China people, the couple devoted their whole lives to training their two children-Fu Cong became the famous piano master and Fu Mincheng became a special English teacher. It was they who taught their son to be a "person" first and then a "home". At the end of their lives, they all end with the word "person". All good memories don't want to humiliate themselves, and they don't want so many unpleasant things in life that they can't stand it. They would rather give up themselves and gain a kind of liberation to complete the interpretation of "people". It is their strict family education that has cultivated world-class masters of art, just as Lou Shi, a good friend of that year, was too strict and meticulous with his son Fu Cong in the face of Fu Lei's family education. However, it is this strict family education that has created a beautiful life for him and left a precious mirror for thousands of parents in Qian Qian to see what they have given their children. What should they do for their children?

In the book, we not only see a strict and caring father, but also see the common growth of father and son. His music translation communicates with his son and also shows his concern and love for the development of the motherland to the students. Fu Lei is doing his duty to the society, the motherland and the human world with a highly responsible spirit and heart. His son, Fu Cong, learned a lot of rich nutrients in his wandering career in a foreign country. His father also put him in an overseas orphan-like situation, as if his parents were still by his side, giving him guidance, encouragement and encouragement at all times, giving him the courage and strength to overcome all kinds of evil influences and resistance, and letting him embark on his own growth path. Through these letters, he not only established a strong bond between his son and his relatives, but also kept Fu Cong away from them through this bond. Later, it was proved that no matter the cruel experience suffered by his family or his notoriety, he never turned his back on his motherland, was threatened and lured by his enemies in many ways, and even said or did anything that harmed the dignity of his motherland. This is the influence of a father on his son, which is inseparable from the ardent patriotic education that his father gave his son thousands of miles away. Time and distance are not a problem. A loving parent, a sleepless son, is an irreplaceable textbook and a gas station of life. This concern is not a conscious stage, but accompanied by fatherly love.

The serious father never shirked his responsibility. Even though Shanghai was surrounded by Japanese, he left his children at home. As a father, Fu Lei discovered very early that in his young body and mind, his son Fu Cong had the qualities of a musician, just as he was careful about himself, people, work and all aspects of life. He personally wrote textbooks and daily lessons for young children, set an example one by one, personally urged and strictly implemented. He stipulates how children speak, how to act, what to do and what to eat, which cannot be surpassed. He made it himself, and he asked his son to do it. What a father and son!