If you take on the responsibility of your child because you are afraid of hardship, although you avoid the crying and entanglement of your child, you deprive your child of the opportunity to cultivate good character and develop self-ability. This is a great harm.

We always say that children nowadays are not sensible, but we don't know that it is because we protect them too well that they are not sensible. If you want children to think of others and parents from Xiaoming's affairs, you should let them suffer from snacks and let them know the sufferings of the world, cherish and understand them. Most children are very clever, but most children didn't achieve the expected success in the end because they lacked willpower and perseverance.

Childhood and adolescence are the basic stages of life. It is very important and necessary for parents to consciously create some conditions for their children and carry out hard education. "Suffering hardships" is a kind of psychological endurance.

For example, when a child learns to walk, don't always hold her. Concerned parents can find that children who are always supported by their parents to practice walking learn to walk for a longer time than children who practice walking by themselves.

1. When your child is five or six years old, ask him to help you with your things, sweep the floor and clean the table, and tell him how to save electricity. You can also teach them to tidy their rooms.

2. When children go to school, tell them some simple safety knowledge to save stationery expenses.

3. Let the children wash the toilet during the festival, knowing that being smelly and dirty is a part of life.

4. Let children do heavy work properly and know that parents need their care.

5. When children go to middle school, they should manage their living expenses. They have so much money that if they overspend, they can only starve.

6. Cultivate children's life skills, so that children have strong hands-on ability.

7. When a child is about fifteen years old, he should take part in more social activities outside, exercise himself, get in touch with the society and cultivate the spirit of hardship.

The long road of life depends on yourself, and the difficulties must be solved by yourself. One day, they will face the society by themselves and shoulder the responsibility of the family. Especially for boys, for a future man, hard work is the foundation of his life. Without fighting spirit, he is doomed to face more and more fierce social competition. Letting children suffer hardships is to prepare for the smooth progress of their future life journey and reserve energy. Let them fully realize their value in the stormy life after entering the society.