First of all, parents should find a suitable opportunity to sit together and talk openly with their children about the reasons for your divorce. Of course, if there are other places that are not suitable for children to understand, they should be unified, so that children can understand that mom and dad can't live together because of XXX's divorce, but parents still love him very much, so that children can dispel the fear that no one will love them from now on.
Secondly, no matter who the child is with, both parents can't ignore the communication and education of their children. As guardians, we should devote more love to our children, and at the same time, we should not set obstacles for them to get close to each other, but encourage them to communicate with each other about their studies and life. The other party is also to show the sincerity of mom and dad, give more care to the children as much as possible, pay the living expenses in time, don't forget to buy gifts and clothes for the children's birthdays, seasons and holidays, call at least once a week, and it is best to take you to live when the children are on vacation, so that he can feel that his parents are as good as their words, and even if they are divorced, they have not abandoned me or loved me.
Third, children are born with love. Parents live in harmony, and a good family atmosphere is their best nourishment. Parents are their most direct imitators, and their future preferences for their partners and attitudes towards love all come from their parents. If you want your children to get married happily in the future, let them see the best of your marriage. Even if they are divorced, don't kill the beautiful things. Enlarge this part for them to see and reshape their correct attitude towards love and marriage.
Fourth, both parents should be good grandparents for their children. Don't let them say that a parent is not, and love him as always. Of course, both parents should do this, otherwise the child will lose control.
Fifth, compared with the fact of divorce, parents' attitude towards divorce and their evaluation of each other in front of their children have a greater influence on their children. No matter what kind of problems between husband and wife lead to the end of marriage, parents are his/her relatives to the child, and both husband and wife choose the way to solve their problems. There is no need to insist on putting this matter in front of the children, turning themselves into stubborn men and women and demonizing each other, which will have a bad influence on the children's psychology.