1. Let children form gender cognition from an early age.
When children are young, parents can let their children have a preliminary understanding of their gender through different clothes, such as wearing beautiful and bright skirts for girls, while boys choose some relatively dim colors. Let children know the difference between men and women from an early age.
It is also best to be accompanied by same-sex elders when taking a shower. When a child is old enough to take a bath by himself, he should be allowed to take a bath by himself.
2. Satisfy children's curiosity.
Just like the child mentioned above asked his mother, "Where am I from?" If you only deceive children with perfunctory answers, it will only suppress their curiosity about sex, and at the same time produce a blind mystery about sex, and children can't fully understand the complicated answers.
I remember Yin Jianli, a famous child-rearing expert, once gave a perfect answer to this question: "When mom and dad got married, they wanted a baby, so they pinched something from mom and dad and put it together in mom's stomach, so that the baby would grow up in mom's stomach, so that you would look like mom and dad."
3. Guide the normal communication between children and the opposite sex.
Parents should tell their children clearly when they are young, which parts of the body should not be touched by others. If someone touches his body, be sure to tell his mother.
I remember there was a plot in the reality show "Where is Dad?". Chun Wu's daughter Nene wore a coat with sequins on her chest. If she rubs it repeatedly from navel to chest, the pattern will change color. The little mangosteen felt curious and touched it. As a result, the pattern really changed color.
Wu Xinyi's brother saw it and wanted to give it a try, but Nie Nie said, "You can't be a boy, but Xiao Mangosteen can." I have to admire the success of Chun Wu's concept of children's sex education.
4. Sex education in adolescence.
Compared with sex education in childhood, we are more cautious about sex education for adolescent children. At this time, in addition to making adolescent children aware of their physical changes, they should also cultivate their various hobbies to enrich their lives, so as to release their energy to work or sports activities.
In addition, children must avoid remote and desolate places when they go out alone, and don't accept drinks or food casually outside. If you are sexually assaulted, remember to ask your parents for help bravely and promptly, and never hide it.
I hope I can help you. Good luck.