It is normal for children to feel sad about failures and setbacks when they grow up. Because they are still young and don't know how to solve the sadness in their hearts, parents won't give their children more pressure at this time. At this time, parents can give their children some comfort and tell them that losing the game is nothing. You'll be ready when you get back, and the result may be different next time. At this stage, parents should tell their children that it is normal to be unhappy and parents understand him very well. When the child is understood and accepted, the child's mood will gradually ease and it is easier to cheer up.

In real life, as parents, we all want our children to win, but we are afraid of losing, so we will tell our children that winning or losing is not important, but our capitalized expression can't deceive our children. Our faces are full of care. The yellow certificate posted on the wall tells our children that victory is very important. I think every child will never forget the joy and pride on their parents' faces when they get good grades in the exam. If the child doesn't know which is right and which is wrong, he will be more contradictory. So, since we all want to win, let's just tell our children to try to win.

To a certain extent, it is the driving force of children's progress and can promote children's all-round progress and development. Children's sense of success again and again will inspire their self-confidence, just like those children who study well sometimes don't know why they have been studying well, because the positive feedback brought by good grades in each exam makes them further believe that they can do it, thus forming a virtuous circle.

However, children who are too competitive are often eager to win. Once you gain an advantage, you are easy to be complacent, blind and confident, and it is difficult to achieve great success; Once you lose, you can't win, you can't bear the psychological pressure brought by failure, which leads to various problems. Those who remain calm about winning or losing have both the ability to win and the ability to bear losses. They have strong adaptability and can adjust their mentality quickly. They won't deny themselves just because they fail once or twice. They will only be more depressed and brave. Faced with failure, children will be more excited and immersed in a sad world. At this time, no matter how much truth you tell him.