1, intelligence is not the most important thing, but will is more important than intelligence, mind is more important than will, and personality is more important than mind.
2. Many things in life are beyond our decision. Sometimes everything goes well, and sometimes everything doesn't. We should be proud of ourselves and be able to handle ourselves when we are frustrated.
Deep down, you will always know clearly when it is the beginning and when it is the end. Time will remind you in its own way.
4. Every child grows up with problems, and every parent grows up with problems. Children who don't have problems can't be found, and parents who don't have problems can't be found. The key is to find a solution to the problem as calmly as those excellent parents.
When you meet a beggar, give him something to eat if you want money, and give him something to eat if you want to eat.
According to statistics, there are nearly 10 million "idle" minors in China. The so-called idle minors refer to children who should have studied at school instead of studying and chose to drop out of school. Among them, 94% is the result of academic failure, and falling behind in school, being tired of learning, playing truant and leaving home have become the four steps of juvenile delinquency today.
7.2 1 century, the information society requires more and more people's quality, and any post needs training and assessment. However, it seems that only children are born, and without education, it seems that they will automatically take up their posts and will never be laid off. In fact, this understanding is wrong. Everyone should learn relevant knowledge before becoming a parent. The sooner you prepare your awareness and knowledge of how to be a parent, the better.
8. Some people may say that so many parents who don't know a word are also educating their children. In fact, illiteracy is not uneducated, and these parents are also experts in educating their children.
9. People all over the world like to call normal people crazy.
10, but these are actually the most important things in a person's growth. When reading biographies, we are often deeply moved by the extraordinary performance of the arranger in childhood, because this achievement motivation has a great influence on a person.
The most important factors, such as 1 1, will, mind, morality, etc. , not through parents' preaching and other "explicit education", but through parents' behavior, that is, "implicit education", into the child's flesh and blood, in order to produce results. ( www.YS575.coM )
12, children who worship rebellious parents, because I think the first child who dares to raise the banner of rebellion must be a hero in troubled times or the first chick in the world.
13, her hearty laughter came from the lobby of the building. I can't wait to catch her laughter, like catching the long tongue spit out by a chameleon, and take her out of the building.
14, ◎ If you meet a street stall at night, buy as many as you can. Don't bargain, nothing is expensive. Even if the family is better, who will set up a stall on a cold night?
15. Therefore, it has become our parents' duty to help children adapt to exam-oriented education, and the way to help children reduce their burden is that our parents can increase their burden, that is, our parents can become their mentors.
China's first outstanding mother, Comrade Shen Liping, was a painter. In order to learn painting, she not only went to college, but also went to the Central Academy of Arts and Crafts for further study. I not only bought books, but also visited numerous art exhibitions and listened to numerous academic reports. However, she never realized that it takes time to raise children. She didn't really learn to be a mother until her child was severely disabled by a plane crash. Thanks to her own efforts, she finally helped her children overcome their disabilities and became the "China hero" praised by the Norwegian people.
17, contacted hundreds of excellent parents. They have one thing in common, that is, they have made great efforts in educating their children, just like Shen Liping. If she had said it herself, people would not have thought that she had put so much effort into the growth of her son Wang Jiapeng. Her colleagues and friends all said: you did everything to the extreme except that the plane fell at that time, and you didn't delay the children. But how difficult it is to do this!
18, there are no parents who are naturally successful, and there are no parents who don't need to learn. Successful parents are the result of continuous learning and improvement. I have come into contact with so many excellent parents, and none of them has succeeded in teaching their children easily. An excellent mother even said: Many people think I am relaxed and say that your children are so excellent, and I don't care at all. As we all know, I even sleep with one eye open at night! A good mother nip in the bud, and an unqualified mother is a child whose problem is so serious that even the teacher has talked to the child, and she has not realized the existence of the problem.
19, many things in life are like this, there is no need to force them. Should come, should go, follow fate, follow fate. Just like Wan Li in a clear sky, the flowers are withered, generally sunny and generally real, and life will go on.
20. The whole society should have a correct understanding of quality education and exam-oriented education. Examination-oriented education is an unavoidable problem for both schools and parents, and it needs to be adapted by both schools and parents. There is no contradiction between exam-oriented ability education and quality education, and quality education without exam-oriented ability is not real quality education.
2 1, in these three steps, listening is the worst for parents.
22. Of course, good grades are brought out by school teachers, but today, with the fierce competition in exam-oriented education, these good grades are more and more soaked in the sweat of parents.
23. For parents whose children enter junior high school, there is a general confusion that it is difficult to communicate with their children. There are more contradictions between adolescent children and menopausal mothers, not only because they are in a period of internal psychological turmoil, but more importantly, both of them are under great external pressure. Children are under pressure to enter a higher school, and mothers are under pressure from their careers and need more communication.
24. I quietly looked at the mercury glass mirror, which contained a charming beauty. I like them myself, not to mention those men. Although my heart is sad because of my father, michel platini said that the more painful my heart is, the more cheerful my face is, and I can't show my cowardice to others. Okay, okay, okay, let's see, let's see. I'm going to have a good match with women in gaomi city today. I can't compare with the toes of a young lady or daughter in the Imperial Academy.
25, excellent children are mostly the result of quality education, problem children is the product of the problem family. Most of the children's problems are not caused by the children themselves, but reflect the parents' problems. Parents are often the makers of children's problems and obstacles for children to correct their mistakes and shortcomings. The urgent task is not to educate children, but to educate parents. Without the change of parents, there will be no change of children. There are no children who don't want to learn well, only children who can't learn well, no children who can't educate well, and only parents who can't educate. Therefore, scold yourself before scolding your child, and beat yourself before hitting your child. Only in this way can you completely change yourself.
26. It's a pity that fewer and fewer people pay attention to morality now, so it's inappropriate to talk to parents about moral education. As for a person's mind and ambition, it is an overseas anecdote that our parents don't want to hear, because it has nothing to do with the current exam results!
In addition to setting a good example for parents, the way for children to develop a big mind is to let them read more famous books and biographies of great men, so that children can learn to look at society and themselves from the perspective of great men from an early age.
28. Who dares to say that he is not a fool when he is alive? Who can not be stupid all his life, just work hard on everything, and don't care who gets or loses, and don't care about the eyes and faces of others.