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The most failed education
Nowadays, a family pays more and more attention to children's education. It is no exaggeration to say that most of a family's economic and energy expenditure is related to the growth and education of children. After all, it is the educational result that every parent longs for. On the other hand, a general phenomenon can be found in the current educational situation of most families in China, which can be summarized as follows: mothers are too strong, fathers don't work hard, and children don't work hard.

Mom is amazing. I don't know if you realize it. Society generally requires that the role of mother be more and more strict. Therefore, as the mothers of children, the responsibilities they shoulder now often force them to become more and more anxious. We can all conclude that most mothers are in a state of anxiety. For example, some mothers urge their children to do their homework every day, just like learning a spell. Now most mothers are full-time mothers. No matter how children eat and drink every day, how to send their children to school, and how to supervise their children to finish their homework, the mother is the first role. Being a mother is really personal. Children live under her nose every day. Can she not be anxious? Over time, this high-pressure state often forces children to have rebellious psychology, and such confrontation for a long time will have bad educational effects.

Father doesn't contribute. The same mother is diligent in supervising children, but she often lacks a father around her. Nowadays, many men are the mainstay of the family. They worked hard outside all day and came home exhausted. They can say that they have enough energy to deal with some educational problems of Xiong Haizi. Even if the father is in his spare time, he is too lazy to discipline the children. Over time, this casual negligence will often become a normal state.

Children don't work hard

Anyway, the main body of education is actually children, and they are the people who should work hard for them. On the other hand, in today's education, mothers do the most. Some Xiong Haizi didn't realize that when their mothers took pains, they still played their own video games indifferently. No matter what they did, procrastination became their representative term.

No matter what kind of education is adopted, the division of labor and cooperation of each family is very important. Mom and dad should fully perform their duties. Only when everyone shares the responsibility in a balanced way can children's educational growth enter a benign state.