Three key steps
Emotional guidance method includes three key steps: sowing trust, observing and understanding, and guiding to solve problems. These three steps are the core of the emotional guidance method and the key to help children stay away from the misunderstanding of family education.
1? Sow trust
Tell your child a clear code of conduct, not a vague "good, obedient". Clear requirements can let children know how to act.
2? Observe and understand
Carefully observe the child's emotional changes and judge whether it is within the normal range. When the child's emotions are out of control, kneel down and look into his eyes, really listen to his feelings, and use the sentence "I understand you ..." to make the child feel understood rather than accused.
3? A guide to solving problems
After the child is emotionally stable, guide him to think about how to solve problems, how to get along with others and how to make everyone happy. When he makes the right behavior, he should affirm and tell him specific positive words in time, such as "patience" and "persistence", so as to cultivate his emotional intelligence and self-confidence.
Emotional guidance is simple but practical.
Emotional guidance is a simple but practical method, which can help children stay away from the misunderstanding of family education and cultivate their emotional intelligence and self-confidence. I hope every parent can master this method to help their children grow up healthily and happily! ?