Nowadays, China people celebrate every festival, regardless of the east or the west. With the help of the Internet, friends and businesses have a strong atmosphere. If we live every day like a holiday, it is not a bad thing in itself, at least our happiness in life has gone up.
However, it is biased to take advantage of festivals.
Two days ago, I talked with Ma Xiao, the owner of the convenience store downstairs in our community, about this problem. He said: "Some parents are really strange. I have opened a convenience store in this community for nearly ten years, and I often meet some children who take our things and leave. Things like taking toys and chocolate chips happen from time to time.
Under normal circumstances, I will tell my children to put your things down and remember not to take them next time. Talking too much is also worrying about the child's psychological shadow. "
That kind pony is very popular in the community. He said that basically the children who take things range in age from three to five to thirteen. Except those who are too young to understand, tell him once and it won't happen again. Children also have their own self-esteem and feel embarrassed to be found. Some children are afraid to come to the store for a long time after being found once.
However, a teenage girl in the community took something for the third time, and once she stuffed potato chips into her bag, she was found. Pony knew the little girl's father, thought about it and called him down.
I didn't expect my parents to come down and see my daughter standing in front of the cashier with her head down. She was frightened and very upset. When her daughter saw her father, she cried at once. Pear blossoms bring rain, and she is infinitely wronged. Parents became angry from embarrassment and took it out on the pony.
"How can my daughter do petty theft! Maybe he didn't bring any money today. Is it just a bag of potato chips? Our family has a lot of this kind of money! Our family has plenty of money! I'll give you a hundred. Keep the change! Why are you still standing here? Go! "
Throw the money in the pony's face, yell angrily and pull her daughter away.
I asked my boss why Ma Xiao didn't show him the video, so he could call the police.
Pony told me to let him go. With such parents, the little girl is unlucky enough and her future is worrying. I'm a small business, so it's better to have more than one thing.
Everyone makes mistakes, and children can't stand the temptation of snack toys. The child is a blank sheet of paper. If you don't guide them correctly from an early age, it will really have a bad influence on their lives.
Many bad behaviors have nothing to do with more money or less money, but a person's cognitive ability often determines t a's life.
I remember when my son was in a small kindergarten class, he once went to the fruit shop with me to buy fruit. After paying the money, he walked a long way. I found his pockets bulging, and his two small pockets were full of longan. I was surprised and said, "honey, we didn't buy this just now!" " "
"Mom, grandma said, it doesn't matter if children eat this. Grandma gave it to me at the fruit shop last time. "
I told the baby that if you like it, mom will buy it for you, but this must be returned first! Take it without paying. This is called a thief. Go and make it clear to the cashier at once.
My son cried all the way to the fruit shop. I took him to apologize sincerely and lost longan again. The child is very sad and embarrassed, but he knows from now on that he can't take anything without paying!
That night, I began to tell my son vividly that my parents stole needles when I was a child, stole gold when I grew up and went to prison. I continued to consolidate and strengthen the story and carried out profound ideological transformation.
Our two children never take advantage of petty advantages now, because they know that taking advantage of petty advantages will pay a great price.
Education is never a trivial matter. For children who don't have a correct understanding, it is normal to possess what they like. As long as parents guide them reasonably, they will learn to control their desires as they grow older.
It's a pity that many parents don't realize these problems and think it doesn't matter if their children are young. In a word, son, it doesn't matter, just kidding. As everyone knows, the carelessness of parents has made adult children develop an addiction to stealing.
As an adult, the desire to get something for yourself will surge from time to time. If you are lucky, do what you can't do and soothe your restless heart. It is not uncommon for big stars who have made millions to wear luxury goods and brand-name clothes, resulting in bankruptcy.
After all, if you take advantage, you will suffer a big loss.
A child is a blank sheet of paper, and he is best at imitation. Adults are more important than words and deeds. As parents, we should set an example for the future flowers of our motherland and tell them what to do and what not to do. It is even more inappropriate to go to a convenience store to buy sugar in the name of the festival without paying. As a parent, you should do it and think twice.