The reason: On the one hand, we want children to be as sensible and responsible as adults, on the other hand, we treat children as children, and we don't know how to respect them, so we can't treat them as children. I once read a short story: "A child is determined to be a pilot, and then the teacher asks what to do if he is in distress. The child said that everyone should fasten their seat belts and skydive, and then someone asked you why you escaped by yourself, so that everyone should not escape. The child said that I was jumping to get the oil so that the plane could fly and everyone would be safe. " Maybe when we hear a child say that he has escaped, we will interrupt him and think that he is irresponsible and selfish. But after listening to all the answers, we can really understand the child's thoughts and feel that he is a responsible person. In fact, as a professional in education, why not make this mistake, especially the children in the lower grades of kindergarten, who are young and have poor language expression and thinking. When the child reports to the teacher, we often reply with the word "I know" and quickly put him back to his seat. What's more, he will scold his children and say that he loves to complain and doesn't consider their feelings and thoughts.
We always teach our children to respect their elders and love their teachers, but have we ever thought about respecting our children? The child's mind is pure and can't tolerate any contamination. It is easy to cause psychological trauma to children and lead to inferiority. In fact, respecting children should start with every little thing, which may be a thank you and a good morning, which is very important for cultivating children's sound personality. Therefore, in order to educate children well, we must start from the heart, educate children with love, and respect their thoughts and behaviors.