First, the basic principles of family education
1, principle of equality
Research psychology has found that children and parents discuss and argue with each other in an equal environment, which is not only a friendly running-in, but also helps children build up confidence and distinguish right from wrong, which is of great help to children's imagination and creativity. Therefore, in family education, parents should treat their children as equal and independent individuals and communicate with them. ?
2. Respect the principle
Those who love others will always love others; Respect others and others will always respect you. This sentence is very suitable for family education.
3, the principle of communication
Good communication is the best way to bridge the gap. Parents and children should keep enough communication time, so as to give full play to children's emotional and cognitive abilities.
4, the principle of freedom
It is not wise to discipline children too strictly, but it is counterproductive. What parents need to do is to trust their children, give them a space for moderate development, let them feel the freedom of bondage and give full play to their creativity.
5, the principle of unity
Family education is important, but at the same time it should be unified with society and school education.
Second, the method of family education.
1, family environment edification method?
Children spend most of their time at home, and family life plays a very important role in their relationship with children. No matter from thinking, psychology or study, the family environment will have a positive or negative impact on children. As parents, we should create a good family environment, and parents must be able to do what their children are required to do; Children also participate in major family events, which is a symbol of equal status and will make children feel their own value.
2. Let children learn to explore independently?
It is a good educational practice to let children learn to practice independently and explore problems. Human beings are lazy, rambling, influenced by others and lazy to think independently; If parents do a lot of things for their children, they are harming them. Moreover, as we all know, it is not necessarily a bad thing for children to suffer for themselves, but it may be a valuable experience of a lifetime. Parents should try their best to do their own thing for their children. The process of doing things is a process of learning. ?
3. Educate your children through word of mouth and yourself?
In family education, word of mouth is a very common family education method. Parents talk to their children with certain things, persuade them to do things, assign tasks to them, and educate them with information. Parents also need to set a good example for their children. Parents are generally children's first idols. The exemplary role of parents will give children a lot of inspiration and guide them to have a strong desire and interest in some things.