Franklin once said: the education of young people is the cornerstone of the country; Lengrand once said: The task of education is to train future adults to take responsibility and business in life, accept changes and various forms of intellectual and cultural adventure activities, and adapt to the rapid changes in social customs, moral concepts and theoretical theories. It is not difficult to see that teaching and educating people is very important to parents and the country, and educational problems often plague parents. Is the education method of cat mom and tiger dad desirable?

From my personal point of view, this kind of education is not a good way. Parents who sing bad COP will make their children feel that they can rely on one side. The next time there is a similar scene, they will feel that there are loopholes to drill. In the long run, as far as parent-child relationship is concerned, it will also cause fear of father's image and marginalization of father's affection, which is not conducive to the formation of good parent-child relationship. Although there are successful cases in the educational methods of cat mom and tiger dad, they are only a few extreme cases. The way to educate children is skillful, and parents can also communicate with each other, learn from the ways and means adopted in parenting, take the essence and discard the dross. In the face of educational problems, if Tiger Dad always knows how to use a stick, it will be counterproductive.

For children, it will also cause great psychological pressure and even rebellious psychology. In addition, the key to education is to teach students in accordance with their aptitude. For different children, our education methods are also different. Smart and sensible children can tell them why they do everything in a reasonable way, so that they can understand their parents' pains. It is said that Fiona Fang cannot be made without rules, and the education methods of cats, mothers and tigers have no rules. Parents will only scold and comfort when they encounter problems, which will not help solve the problems at all, so we should also establish family rules so that children can establish a sense of rules from an early age.

Mother cat and father tiger seem to be in harmony, but in fact this kind of education method is flawed. For education, we sum up experience in long-term exploration and teach students in accordance with their aptitude.