First of all, we must know why the child is crying. There are many reasons why children cry, some because they are wronged, some because they are spoiled, but most children cry as a sign of "seeking attention", which shows that parents don't pay much attention to their children's emotions, and children feel neglected (note that emotions are ignored or not understood, not necessarily physical. Therefore, all children's problems are parents' problems. First, ask parents what causes their children to feel neglected or not understood. There is a problem with the guidance method, or parents are busy at work, or parents really don't get along well, and so on.

After analyzing the reasons, it is easy to start, and the rest is like doing experiments. Take one example: for example, children cry because their parents are rude and don't know much about their children's psychology. Therefore, educating children is rude and does not know how to guide them correctly. Strike when children need psychological comfort (for example, when children accidentally hurt other children while playing games at school, parents immediately beat and scold them when they find it is their own fault, or show anger and ignore them, and many children will choose to cry to attract their parents' attention and vent their grievances). At this time, parents can put themselves in their own shoes and consider the problem from their children's playful nature, instead of asking their children to deal with it based on their own expectations. After empathizing, comfort the child, then tell the child that his mother doesn't know what he wants to say when he cries, encourage the child to say it himself, then tell the child that his mother always loves him, and then encourage him to make up for it. It will be better next time. Children who want to participate in some reward policies will like it better.

There is a way for dad to go there called cold treatment, which is to make him cry and let him know that crying can't solve the problem, and he can also learn from it. However, the application of this method depends on the situation, and it can be used for some children who try to hide their malicious harm or sabotage by crying and distract their parents' attention. However, if a child tries to attract attention because of lack of security, and the result is still treated coldly by his parents, it will easily cause the child's subconscious insecurity and eventually lead to personality defects.

-People and Education baidu promotion Team of Qilinmen Campus