From the time their children went to kindergarten, parents began to worry that their children could not adapt to being wronged in the garden and could not integrate into the collective life. Where there are people, there are rivers and lakes, and so are kindergartens.

My little nephew was introverted and honest when he went to kindergarten. For a while, he said he didn't want to go to kindergarten again.

After staying at home for two days, I had a deep chat with him, and gradually I realized that there was a boy named Zhang Wei in the class who always squeezed him out. Zhang Wei nicknamed his nephew "Little Ant" and constantly encouraged his classmates not to play with him. He always goads his little nephew with ugly words.

The little nephew is naturally depressed and never wants to go to kindergarten again.

Verbal bullying and interpersonal rejection like this belong to implicit bullying. Although this kind of bullying can't see trauma, it doesn't need to start work, but the psychological and emotional damage to children is more serious than the physical damage. If parents do not handle it properly, it will have a lifelong shadow and negative impact on children's minds.

Coincidentally, my cousin's Nana had a similar situation last year. Nana is very beautiful, and my cousin loves to dress up Nana. Therefore, Nana always stands out from the crowd.

There is a little girl named Xianxian in Nana's class. She is jealous of Nana's loveliness and beauty. She always deliberately stepped on Nana's foot, colluded with several little girls and boys in the class and deliberately opposed Nana.

When one day Nana said with tears on her face that she didn't want to go to kindergarten, her cousin ran to the kindergarten to find a teacher and asked for monitoring, only to find that Nana had been suffering from this invisible bullying.

What happened to the little nephew and Nana was that after the parents found a kindergarten teacher, the parents finally helped their children change kindergartens. But fundamentally speaking, changing kindergartens can't solve the problem from the root, because children may be bullied from kindergarten to university graduation, and even after working, there is no guarantee that children will not be bullied or squeezed out in the office.

The film Better Days is a film about middle school students' anti-bullying. The reason why this film resonates widely in society is that almost every parent and student is worried and opposed to school bullying, and parents are afraid that their children will be hurt by school bullying.

My daughter is a lively, cheerful and very kind child. She won't fight with others, but sometimes she has a little personality. Generally speaking, she is very happy in kindergarten, but once she said that she was afraid of a boy in her class, because that boy sometimes kicked her or covered her mouth.

I immediately reflected this situation to the kindergarten teacher and asked the teacher to pay more attention to her daughter's situation in kindergarten. Later, I gave her a few tricks.

1. If anything unpleasant happens in kindergarten, you must tell the teacher at the first time and then tell your parents when you get home.

It is also the meaning of my daughter's kindergarten teacher to find a teacher as soon as possible.

What the teacher said is very reasonable. There are 30 students and 3 teachers in a class, so it is inevitable that they will not be able to take care of them. Children get into the habit of finding a teacher in time when they have something to do in kindergarten, so as to avoid being hurt as much as possible and find a way to solve the problem in the first place.

In addition, you must tell your children that no matter what unhappy things happen in kindergarten, you must tell your parents in time, because mom and dad will always be your strong backing, and don't hide unhappy things in your heart.

2, in the face of unfriendly children, don't be afraid, have the courage to say "no".

Most bullied children have a common feature, that is, "bullying the weak and fearing the hard." They are often good at "watching people eat food". The weaker you are, the easier it is for him to bully you If you are tough, he won't take advantage of anything and won't dare to bully you again.

I told my daughter that if someone bullies you for no reason, you should remember to fight bravely, fight back, fight if you can, and run if you can't. First of all, you should pay attention to protect your own safety, and then you should report to the teacher that someone is bullying you in time.

I also told my daughter not to be afraid of bullying. We should not bully others, but we should never be bullied by others. The more you are afraid, the more he will bully you.

This move is very effective. I have never heard of anyone bullying my daughter again.

3. Improve children's emotional intelligence and language skills, and know what to do in case of bullying.

When you encounter bullying, you don't know what language to use to deal with each other, and you don't know what to do to get rid of the blame. This is also a problem that many children will encounter.

So is my daughter. She has been brought up in a friendly and harmonious family atmosphere, and will not fight or bully others. If such a child meets a child who loves to beat people and bully others, he will be at a loss and will be very painful.

To this end, my friend Wang Yi, a senior kindergarten director, recommended a set of anti-bullying picture books "What should I do if I encounter bullying?" 》。

This set of books is divided into eight books to teach children how to deal with bullying or hidden bullying.

This set of books tells children what to do when they encounter emotional bullying, social bullying, relationship bullying, verbal bullying, hidden bullying, physical bullying, property bullying, physical aggression and so on.

For example, children are bullied by relationships, laughed at, excluded, persuaded out, and isolated by a group of people. At this time, you can't submit to humiliation, because that will make the bully more arrogant. You should know how to make yourself physically strong, mentally strong and dare to resist. You should understand that a really good interpersonal relationship depends on mutual respect, communication and care, not on bullying or tolerance.

When encountering property bullying, physical safety is more important than property. When calling for help, give up property temporarily if necessary, but be sure to pay attention to personal safety, and never let people's personal safety be damaged for property.

This set of anti-bullying picture books uses stories and solutions to simulate bullying scenes for children and help children analyze the psychology and coping strategies of bullies, which is particularly practical.

I often read this set of picture books to my daughter, and she will flip through them when she is free. She learned a lot at a young age, but after using this picture book, she never told me who would bully her.

In addition, this set of anti-bullying picture books also teaches children to distinguish right from wrong, know beauty and ugliness, educate children not to be bullies, be friendly and equal with others, and respect others.

This set of How to Deal with Bullying is divided into eight books, namely, I don't like being discriminated against, I don't like being excluded, I don't like being groped, I don't like being bullied, I don't like being pushed, I don't like being wronged, I don't like being laughed at, I don't like being insulted and I teach children how to deal with the above bullying.

After each picture book, there are "things you must know". Analyzing various types of bullying helps parents to teach their children to avoid bullying and injury.

The original price of the 8-series picture book "What to do in case of bullying" 189 yuan is now doing activities. 49 yuan for eight books, and 6 yuan for each. Soybean ink is environmentally friendly, and it is genuine.

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