I don't think a family of two children can even make a bowl of water. Trying to put a bowl of water flat in front of children is the most deceptive parent-child concept. Because when the boss was born, there was only one child in the family, and everything was his. Even if you give him less, he will feel he has lost a lot. Remember the following four points, and your child will grow up healthily and harmoniously. The first and most important point is to establish the authority of the boss, so that the big one can control the small one and the big one can control the small one. Second, when children are bored. When there are contradictions, parents should not be referees and guide the boss to solve them. Third, don't criticize one child in front of another. Fourth, don't compare children. Boys and girls use different standards. If you must choose to be biased, then you will be biased towards the boss, because the boss will develop earlier than the younger one, both emotionally and experientially, and will feel that his parents still love her very much. At the same time, when the child has problems, let the boss make more decisions, and he will feel more secure and responsible. Gradually, he will be conscious. Let the younger brothers and sisters. So, on the surface, it seems that the boss has benefited. In fact, after the younger children benefit, parents don't need to worry too much about their children's affairs, because they can solve them themselves. Only smart parents who love their children can get along well, and only children who are fed by love will not care about the small contradictions between brothers and sisters.