First, adjust the mentality. If a single mother wants to educate her children well, she must first adjust her mentality. No matter what the reason for divorce is, you should not have any complaints and antipathy to your children, but be responsible for them. Although divorce is a foregone conclusion, I am worried that my mother should face the facts bravely and quickly adjust herself to be the pillar of her children. Don't be secretive about your child, just make it clear to your child and help him adjust. Only when parents get out of the shadows and become positive and optimistic can they drive their children to be positive and optimistic. And if a single mother takes care of the children, don't let the children see each other because they are angry, because the growth of the children needs the company of both parents.
Second, spend more time with parents. Divorce is not only the harm to both parents, but also the biggest harm to children. Moreover, children certainly need time to sort out their mood and adjust their mentality during this time. During this period, single mothers should spare more time to accompany their children and do what they like while they are busy with their work, and don't let their children always suppress their emotions. If the child has doubts about this matter, parents should also answer the questions truthfully with the child, do not evade this question, and seriously explain the truth to the child.
Third, help children cultivate independence and self-confidence. Parents' divorce will certainly do great psychological harm to their children. In the process of growing up, the lack of love from one parent may make children feel deeply inferior. At this time, parents should try their best to ease their children's emotions, don't criticize them in an imperative tone, encourage them to express their inner thoughts, help them relieve their pressure, let them learn to be independent, let them know that they are no different from other children, and cultivate their self-confidence.