Sensen finished the exam, although his grades were in the middle and upper reaches of the class, he still couldn't get into the top ten in the class. Sensen's mother took Sensen's report card and found that Sensen's English score was really poor, but her math and physics scores were top-notch. It's not that the English teacher didn't ask him to talk, nor that my mother didn't talk to Sensen about it. However, this English score seems to be angry with Sensen, so I can't get on. In his own words, one leg has stepped into the gate of Xueba, but the other leg is paralyzed and can't get in anyway.
We have seen many gloomy situations in our daily life. In fact, every parent should think about the "shortcomings" of their children. It is the best way to make up this morning, otherwise the gap between shortcomings and advantages will become wider and wider, and it will be more difficult to make up, just as Sensen will spend too much effort to improve his English if he ignores his grades for a long time.
What causes children to be biased and lead to their own interest orientation?
Interest is the motivation for children to keep learning. Only when children like it will they work hard and study harder. For example, if a child is born with a strong sense of language and likes learning Chinese, he will spend more time reading and writing. On the contrary, I don't have so much energy and interest to study other subjects. Over time, strong disciplines become stronger and weak disciplines become weaker.
Guidance of family cultural atmosphere
Children's learning is inextricably linked with their parents' occupations and habits, and the cultural atmosphere of the family exerts a subtle influence on children's interest choices. Some parents are engaged in computers, so children are more interested in computers and more sensitive to numbers and networks than other children; Some parents like literature, so their children have been exposed to literature since childhood, and it is easy for them to like reading and writing when they grow up ..... Although it is good to have parents to guide their children, they should be careful not to have too much influence. After all, all-round development is advocated now, and a single hobby is not necessarily a good thing.
Influenced by the teacher's teaching style
Although children's partiality comes from their own factors, after all, a lot of knowledge and study habits are developed in school, so the reasons for children's partiality are also greatly influenced by teachers. Many parents know that children "recognize" teachers in class. Some children like a teacher very much and his teaching style. They listen carefully in class and naturally get good grades in this subject. If a child hates a teacher very much, he probably doesn't like the lessons taught by the teacher, so his grades in a certain subject are getting worse and worse.
Knowledge is a whole, and the balanced development of all subjects can show a child's normal learning ability. If every parent wants to study in the sea easily, he should pay attention to correcting his children's partiality.
What should parents pay attention to to to help their children understand the harm of eccentricity?
From the perspective of the college entrance examination, both the five subjects of arts and sciences and the "3+X" examination should be developed in a balanced way. If there are frontier disciplines, it is more conducive to improving the total score of standard score measurement; However, if there are partial subjects, the total score measured by the standard score will drop significantly. From the perspective of employment, in the stage of basic education, students can only adapt to the needs of further study and employment in the future if they learn all subjects well. The investigation shows that the study of each course bears different tasks in the process of cultivating ability and developing intelligence, and cannot replace each other. Without the study of any course, it is impossible to form a complete knowledge structure, thus affecting the overall and coordinated development of individuals. Therefore, partial subjects are extremely harmful to children's current study and future development.
Parents should correct their children's eccentricity in time.
Partial subject phenomenon is more common among middle school students. Parents should observe and understand at any time, and remind them in time if they find any partiality, and do their work in the embryonic stage of their children's partiality. The survey found that some children are partial to subjects and don't understand the purpose and significance of offering various courses. Parents should let them understand the significance of learning these courses well, encourage them to build up confidence and correct their learning attitude.
Help children solve practical difficulties in learning.
Parents should help children with learning difficulties. Parents can also contact the teacher, work closely with the school, and try to give their children classes. The phenomenon of children's partiality cannot be ignored. Some children are particularly good at one or several subjects, which is not a partial subject. Parents should support and encourage their children's special hobbies and specialties, and encourage them to learn all the courses well.
In fact, sometimes I also want to learn this thing. This is really not just a matter for children, but also a matter for a family to act together. What can parents do to help their children?
How to help children overcome the shortcomings in learning and help them analyze the overall situation of strengths and weaknesses in various subjects?
Analyze which subjects are good and which are not, in order to help children realize their advantages and disadvantages in different subjects. It should be noted that this is not to let children make a simple ranking according to their test scores, but to make a feasible guiding analysis on the basis of actual analysis. For example, for a child with a very good foundation in mathematics, although his score is not low, but he is short of time during the exam or has technical losses in the final question, he should seriously consider whether his mathematics learning method is suitable for the current learning stage and make timely adjustments and improvements. It is unwise to rest on its laurels.
Help children sort out weak knowledge points
You should let your children do it. After the exam, carefully analyze the questions that are time-consuming, vacillating and error-prone in the test paper and find out the reasons. Is the formula not grasped firmly, the things to remember not remembered, the method of solving problems not grasped, or the way of thinking not skilled enough? On this basis, supplementary learning is carried out.
Let children do more learning summaries.
Being good at summarizing and analyzing is a magic weapon to help children improve their grades. If children want to get good grades in exams and not lose points because of a certain subject or a certain knowledge point, they should develop the habit of learning more and summarizing more.
In short, as parents, we should let our children not only love learning, but also learn, find their own learning methods, make them sum up and reflect more, find out the causes of the "short board" problem, and let them overcome it effectively in the learning process.