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How to educate children aged 14 or 15?
It's hard. If it is a boy, it is even more difficult. Now that you ask, I think you must have a heart for children. I'm really glad that this child and his father can meet a caring person like you. The child's heart must be very sad No matter how his father comes together with you, there will be resistance to you. So, it's really hard for you to get close to children. I think you should consider the following aspects:

1. Communicate with the father about the children. Don't let him always scold the children. Caring for children, but moderately indifferent. What can be left to you will be left to you, and let the child know that you are good to him. Dad's reprimand to the child may be the result of your provocation. Whether it is or not, children will think so and avoid it.

2. From the aspect of life, you should care about children, children's favorite food, children's favorite clothes, children's hobbies and so on. , and then close to the child's heart;

3. The child made a mistake outside. As a mother, she must apologize to others, put the problem on herself, and let others have nothing to say, but she must be natural and don't let the child feel artificial. If the child is not wrong, he must be wronged. After asking clearly, he must seek justice for his children;

You should pay full attention to your children's study and don't ask too many questions. If you are an expert, teach children how to learn and how to master the essentials of learning. If not, care about life;

The child has reached puberty. If a girl is a girl, she should care about the child's physical health and then help the child's mental health. If it is a boy, it is necessary to remind the father to have more children, give more guidance, and often encourage the children to grow up.

6. When talking about children with others, we should emphasize the advantages and kindness of children. The advantage of praising children is that they can always feel your love and kindness, so that even if they can't accept you for a short time, there will be no great resistance or destruction. With your heart, as long as you have a kind heart and the right way to deal with problems, you will succeed.