What children need most is psychological companionship and experience guidance in an environment of great material richness and satisfaction. On the one hand, children's personality needs to be released, on the other hand, children's ability needs to be cultivated.
How can we be a qualified parent and do a good job in family education to adapt to the development of the times? I have been paying attention to this topic, trying to find a correct educational method that is universally applicable. At present, I think we can work hard in the following aspects:
1. Innovate your family education concept. Physically and psychologically, we have an absolute advantage over children, who are independent individuals. In the future, they will face the society independently, and our knowledge and experience are enough to support the needs of children's lifelong growth. Therefore, it is an outdated way of education to treat children as private goods and want to control and shape their education. On the contrary, respecting and appreciating children's education in an equal and interactive way will be more popular with children.
2. lead by example, not empty preaching. What children need is to see how their parents behave and see the example set by their parents, not endless preaching and preaching. Parents setting an example for their children is a subtle influence, while abstract truth is more like going in one ear and out the other.
3. Keep learning and improve your cognitive level. Parents' cognitive level is the ceiling of children's initial vision. Only when parents continue to learn and improve their cognitive level can children see a broader social space.