Some parents educate their children from childhood that they are not allowed to do this or that. But for junior high school students who are in a rebellious period, parents can no longer educate them like this. Most rebellious children like to be against their parents. If parents have any requirements at this time, junior high school students will refuse first.
Then at this time, parents should reduce the excessive demands on their children and give them some suggestions or selection conditions, thus giving junior high school students the right to choose independently.
Parents should not be too strict.
What junior high school students in the rebellious period hate most is to take care of others behind their backs. Parents can be a little more relaxed in the education of junior high school students during their children's rebellious period to avoid psychological resistance among junior high school students, which will be unfavorable to the education of junior high school students in the rebellious period. But just being a little looser in education doesn't mean that rebellious children are prone to ideological extremism regardless of their children, so parents must guide them in time.
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All along, there are disadvantages in family education in China. Some traditional one-way thoughts will affect parents' education of their children, and most parents have the wrong idea of absolute obedience to their children. For junior high school students in the rebellious period, such parents will stimulate their rebellious psychology.
Moreover, under such family education, even if children go to junior high school, they will not tell their parents everything, which is why so many junior high school students feel very disgusted with their parents' responsibilities when they do something wrong.