This has also caused many children's parents to be very upset in the face of setbacks. Cruel? When children are only a few months old, they start. Resistance training? When the child cries, they deliberately let him cry for a while and ignore him; When the child needs it, they deliberately delay for a period of time to let the child know that he needs to learn to restrain and learn to be strong. But can this method really improve toughness? I don't think so.
What is frustration education? Whether a child can bear setbacks now and in the future does not depend on how much he has suffered, but on the way he handles them. Therefore, the focus of frustration education is not to torture children with setbacks. Improper polishing will only hurt the child's heart and will not turn him into steel. In daily life, some parents do everything for their children. Although children really need the help of adults when they are exposed to new things and learn new knowledge, if this help becomes a substitute, over time, children will lack the psychological experience to overcome difficulties, which will easily lead to fear and dependence on difficulties, thus leading to learning disabilities.
Therefore, the implementation of frustration education must first break the dependence on children. Parents should let their children face the reality and realize that success depends on their own efforts. What impressed me most was my colleague and her children. She likes to educate her children about setbacks. She signed up for an art class, but if the children can't satisfy her, will she? Suppression? Kids. ? You drew it wrong. It's not straight here ... In fact, in my opinion, this is not frustration education, but can be said to suppress children's self-confidence. In the eyes of children, we adults are tall and great, and our attitudes and practices in difficulties have a great influence on children. Therefore, we must set an example and face the difficulties calmly and bravely.
In daily life, they can also be encouraged to do housework bravely. If the house is too messy, please help the children clean up; Mom bought too many things to bring, let the children help, and so on. When dealing with some family problems, let children participate in the discussion, instill and influence children to cope with setbacks through their parents' attitudes, reactions, words and deeds. In addition, the power of your partner's role model is also a good way. When children are afraid of high jump, we can say:? Don't be afraid, you can do it.
Look, he jumped, he can do it, so can you? Are you as brave as someone? In this way, under the power of example, children will become more confident and brave, and enhance their confidence in overcoming difficulties. At this time, yours? Really? Could it be a child? Really? . In fact, in addition to frustration education, we should also cultivate children's self-confidence. This is something that parents can teach their children to draw. This is a simple fact. Childhood children like doodling, which can express their inner world. Frustration education can supplement this.
Children need to be encouraged to draw, so that they will feel that they have drawn well, and often hang his paintings on the wall for everyone to see. Children's drawing ability will be understood by adults, and their attention and interest will naturally increase. Many parents understand it, but they are unwilling to practice it. I'm too busy to send him to extracurricular classes ...? Actually, that's not the reason. If you really want to train, you will find a cram school suitable for your children if you overcome difficulties. In fact, education is shifting to the internet, and so is art.
In my opinion, it is very desirable to have a better network art teacher. Why do you say that? As we all know, most teachers are concentrated in first-tier cities, which leads to uneven distribution of teachers. Online resources are far more important than offline resources, because online resources can make your children lay a solid foundation from an early age. Take the art treasure 1- 1 as an example. It is an art institution dedicated to children aged 4- 12. Teachers also come from 9 major art colleges, professional research teams and unparalleled teachers. In the children's enlightenment period, they can also cultivate their self-confidence in painting.