What we don't like is not the education of our elders, but the feeling of being denied. The elders summed up a set of their own life experiences with their own life experiences. Except for the extreme part, most of the "inside" and "outside" are the mainstream thoughts of an era. Every era will see different scenery, but the elders just see more than us. Just like when we were in our twenties, we couldn't understand the idea of being 42. Elders are not philosophers, they can tell the conclusions brought by experience, but it is difficult to explain. Or the answer given is too far-fetched for you to accept and be satisfied.
The elder said to put career first, but didn't tell us why. Obviously, love is also rare. The elder said he would get married and have children, but he didn't tell us why. It's good to be single. There is no answer, just like Pandora's box, which tempts our rebellion and always feels that our elders are making things difficult for themselves. Life is a gobbledygook without words, and you can understand it without words. Elders especially like to say this sentence: You will understand when you are my age. We believe that ... is a manifestation of age experience, but it is unspeakable helplessness to the elders.
The elders' education of our initial intentions is not only for our own good, but also for our hope that we will not add chaos. I once filmed a Xiong Haizi. He is lazy, with raw eggs in his hand, and wants to throw them directly into the bowl on the table. I said it would break. You have to walk over there and put it there. He wouldn't listen, but insisted on throwing it. Finally, he asked me to clean the table and floor. When young people choose a future career, they should not only consider their personal interests and hobbies, but also look at the current income situation and pay attention to the future development and changes of various occupations. According to the influence of information superhighway and computer network on the global economy, an American expert analyzed the changing trend of various occupations in the next 10 year. He believes that although many occupations will continue to exist, many occupations that people are very familiar with will disappear or become obsolete. These occupations are:
1. Secretary. Since the advent of personal computers, e-mails and fax machines, secretaries have spent more than 45% of their time filing documents, transmitting information, mailing materials, mailing letters and copying materials. But the more advanced electronic office system will make it possible for executives and managers to turn even scribbled notes into memos, which can be distributed by pressing the command key, and the secretary in charge of typing will actually disappear; Second, the bank teller. By the year 2000, almost all bank customers will use ATMs, leaving only a few tellers to be responsible for the front desk transactions of banking business; When we understand each other's growth process, we can empathize with each other to the greatest extent, and we can also understand why each other has formed such a character and temper. It seems that ... this is a process of sharing, and it is also the fastest way to let the other person enter your heart.
Make rules for making love that belong to two people. In this rule, not only the mode of getting along with each other, but also the mechanism for two people to stop the war should be included. Especially when two people have contradictions, effective love rules can help us reduce quarrels and avoid the cold war to a greater extent. A good relationship must have its own rules of love. Whether this rule is specially formulated or not, it must have an intangible influence on the emotional relationship between two people.
Sharing interests and hobbies Girls always hate boys playing games, and boys always hate girls wearing makeup for a long time. Because boys' interest is playing games, while girls' interest is beauty. This is the difference between men and women, because I don't understand it, so I hate it. Maybe when girls fall in love with games and boys fall in love with makeup, they won't hate this interest so much. So share your hobbies and let the other person know more. He or she may not like them, but he or she must know them.