1, education first. Today's society is full of brilliance. This is a pluralistic society. People's ideological quality is uneven, especially a few people pursue fame and fortune by hook or by crook, which has a great influence on children whose thoughts are in transition. As parents, morality should start from itself, consciously resist the invasion of some bad ideas and set an example for children. When children's words and deeds are found to deviate from the law and social morality, we should seriously point out the consequences and harmfulness, guide children to the right track, and encourage them to establish a correct world outlook.

Every parent wants his son to be a dragon and his daughter to be a phoenix. Educate parents of children to behave themselves. Parents should first create a good learning atmosphere for their children. Practice is better than precept. Parents are children's first teachers, and learning parents can certainly educate a child who loves learning. If parents can't control themselves and indulge in surfing the Internet and playing cards all day, it may be unrealistic for hyperactive children to calm down and read books and do their homework.

3. Go into the children's world and be their bosom friends. First of all, we must understand the child's physiological changes. Help children correctly understand and accept their own physiological changes and cherish their sexual characteristics. In addition, the child's brain and nerves are gradually developing, and his emotions are prone to fluctuations and his feelings are very fragile. At this time, parents and teachers need to cooperate and guide and help in time. It is also particularly important to understand the psychological changes of children. Adolescent girls begin to have a sense of adulthood, and the independence and criticism of thinking have developed significantly, but their ability is not strong, and they are still one-sided and superficial. Began to realize the relationship between the two sexes and germinated the demand for sex and love; Interpersonal relationships are becoming more frequent, and they are eager to find friends with the same thoughts and feelings, but they are not good at combining feelings with reason. This requires the guidance and help of parents. Parents should always communicate with their children and understand their thoughts and actions before they can enter their world.

4. Don't be prejudiced against adolescent children. I always thought that children at this stage would be rebellious. Parents should not try to suppress their children as soon as they see signs of independence, for fear that a slight concession will lead them astray. The more parents react, the more children will stick to their opinions; If parents forcibly suppress it, it is not only ineffective, but also counterproductive.

5. Let children have a healthy body. At present, many parents only pay attention to the study of children's cultural knowledge and pay little attention to their children's physical exercise. You know, without a strong body, there is no healthy mind. No matter how great the ideal and ambition are, it is difficult to achieve because the mind is willing but unable to do so.